You are here on Earth to learn to love yourself.
This path can be as bumpy, or as smooth, as you choose. It’s your ride! So if you’re just starting out on this journey, here are a few things I’d like you to know, because I chose the bumpy path and you need not do the same! There wasn’t anyone around back then to tell me these things, and if they had…well I would have thrown my hands in the air and squeed with joy around every corner on this roller coaster of life.
Here are the things I wish I’d known when the whole thing started:
1. You need not be in a state of perpetual healing.
Much like a scale out of balance, as you apply love in place of trauma, equilibrium takes over. There will come a time when you will say, “I am healed,” and you will leave it behind. This includes the idea that you need to heal the Earth Collective of every evil that ever existed, throughout history. As you balance yourself, you become a powerful healer wherever you go, with no action required.
2. Crying means you’re getting better, not worse.
Any culture that tells you that crying is weak has been lying to you. Crying is an immediate release of resistance, as well as an initiator of rebalancing chemicals that heal your physical body. The process is meant to cleanse you, and it is not a sign that something is wrong with you. Let those tears flow whenever and wherever you are.
3. All physical pain has an emotional cause.
Your body is not solid. Humans simply believe that it is, and as such, they search for solid cures to their imbalances. Although medical intervention serves its purpose during the stage where we believe in external cures, you can discover your own internal healing process for any imbalance.*
Oh, and those unexpected 12 hour sleep sessions you find yourself partaking in? They are not depression; you are healing on many levels while you are out for the count.
4. Music has a profound affect on your vibration.
The music that you listen to will indicate your current world view. Note how a song makes you feel, and if it agitates you, then choose something else. You are made of sound. And just like an orchestra in which many instruments contribute to the aria, any sound you hear will blend with you and affect your energy. Consciously choose which sounds you allow in.
5. Daydreaming is the process of creating LIFE, and is not an escape.
We are told to get out of “fantasyland” and get back to reality. This is a lie. The creational process is enacted through you using your imagination. So rather than feeling guilty about those daydreaming episodes, remember that this is the process of creation, and it is a most valuable use of your time. The true escape is to fill your head with other people’s ideas rather than nurturing your own. Social media understands the value of your attention, and uses it like currency. Social media, television and movies may leave your life, as your imagination becomes so vivid that you no longer need anyone else’s input to fill your day.
6. Loving nature plays a huge part in the process. Buy a plant!
Part of humanity’s imbalance is its relationship with Earth, which is the ultimate Martha Stewart of hostesses. You have a whole planet to play on! It is important to establish a relationship with Earth in any way you can. Yes, that means getting out in nature and reveling at the beauty of it. If you live in a city, buy a plant and learn to care for it as if it were your child. Not only will it thrive in your care, but it will heal humanity’s damaged relationship and bring us all back into balance. Note that if you are interested in honing your supernatural abilities, focusing on rebalancing yourself with nature is the most efficient way to do this. For me, it has rejuvenated my abilities as a rainmaker, a deathwalker, and other long-dormant shamanic skills. You have them too!
7. Tying up loose ends is required. Debts, relationships, promises.
If there is something nagging you in the back of your mind, pay attention or it before it gets humongous. Bills you keep forgetting to pay, people you keep forgetting to thank, even an oil change you’ve been putting off. Get them done and have as much appreciation for the situation as possible. This is you, bringing yourself back into balance. Even paying an extra $5 on a debt sends the Universe a sign that you’re working on rebalancing things. You will receive help, I promise, and in very imaginative ways. Integrity is paramount in the awakening process.
8. You are never alone.
Everyone goes through a period of relative isolation. You may lose all of your friends as your frequency rises and theirs doesn’t (but don’t get the ego involved, as there could be those who have vibrated right past YOU!). Yet as you learn to love yourself more, your perspective will also change about who Others really ARE. You will discover that there are tons of beings that exist outside of your line of visual sight. It’s a gradual progression of acceptance, in which you concede that you don’t know everything there is to know. And yes, those things flying around the room that you try to explain away…they really are other souls sharing the space with you. And if you’re wondering if someone you’re thinking about is connecting with you, the answer is yes. The process of your thinking about a person affects them, no matter how far the distance. We are all connected, all the time. There are no exceptions. You might just forget that once in a while.
9. No one is out to get you.
Read my words: There is no such thing as evil. There is only your belief in evil. Once you stop believing in evil, it disappears from your life. This includes pandemic viruses spread among the population by shadow governments; oligarchies by oppressive Reptilians, bullies, and alien abductions. All of these occurrences are merely symbols—that you have created—to help you work through your fear of loving others, and ultimately, yourself. Your Higher Self is on your side and wants to see you, and everybody else, WIN.
10. You really can have everything you want.
It CAN all work out just the way you want it. No one has to lose for another person to win. You have full imaginative capacity to dream of a world in which you get exactly what you want, and so does everyone else. This is the most profound piece of knowledge that I wish I’d had. Everyone can win. The outcome of your dreams depends ENTIRELY on your beliefs of whether or not something can happen.
11. Your environment is an extension of you.
Your physical environment, which encompasses everything that you can see, hear, taste, walk around in, and explore, is an extension of you. If you imagine yourself in the middle of a bubble, you take your environment with you wherever you go. All of what experience OUT THERE is really an extension of what you believe in HERE. Every bit of stimuli that you receive from your surroundings, from a dog barking to a crowd of angry people, is placed there for you, by you, as an indicator of what you’re thinking. The sooner you start considering your personal bubble as part of you, the faster you will gather information about your inner workings and rebalance yourself. That’s when you will start seeing those dreams appear in the physical.
12. Everything is a symbol.
A multidimensional life—one in which you are living both in your mind and in a physical environment—uses many languages. Words are cool, but symbols tell volumes. Learn to ask yourself what a rash of repeated bird images means to you. Repeating numbers, even repeating situations, are all symbols of something much deeper. Even time is a symbol, and really doesn’t exist. If this baffles you right now, try reading some poetry to get yourself accustomed to how symbols are embedded in everything.
13. Being gets you further than doing.
Our society tells us that in order to reach a goal, we must perform a physical action: “No pain no gain! Just do it!” Our culture advises us to create lists, and no matter how painful it is, check something off each day; if you don’t, you’re a failure. This is social engineering, otherwise known as a lie. Any action that isn’t performed in joy does little to move you forward; you are essentially spinning your own wheels. Part of your re-establishing a connection with the Higher Self entails listening to it; check your gut and how it feels about doing anything. More often than you think, just sitting and doing nothing will propel you into a creative state where you find solutions without needing physical effort to accomplish them.
I hope that these tips will assist you on your path. Since there is no one single reality, you are free to agree or disagree with them as you awaken. You are the creator of your life, and you get to choose! Anything that doesn’t feel right in the gut—throw it out! Feel for what does resonate, and follow that. This is integration at its best.
It is my highest desire to see you win. I certainly am! Love to you.
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* This article is not a substitute for medical attention. If you feel called to consult a doctor, then please do. There are many healers disguised as doctors and nurses in our present times.