Happening Now: Rebalancing The Loss of Someone

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If you have lost a child, a sibling, or a partner in your current incarnation, this Equinox might unearth old memories.

Humanity has thrived on loss for a very long time.  It is one of the reasons we chose to incarnate here: for the contrast.  In a dualistic Universe, you won’t know joy unless you know its counterpart, despair.

 

We have chosen to play out loss in many fashions: death, illness, infidelity.

You can associate any event or interaction you experience with “joy” or with “loss”…depending on your personal world view at the time it happened.

This equinox is providing the momentum for rebalancing those losses.

 

If negative memories are resurfacing

Remember this: You were a different person when you stored those devastating experiences in the “loss” category.  And the new person that you are in this moment, is able to review those events with new eyes…and new understanding.  You’ll see benefits from the event—such as how much stronger you have become because of it—and you can recategorize this event as a positive experience rather than as a loss.

On a collective level, your rebalancing of these memories helps heal the world.

Your memory recall, and review from the perspective of the Newer You, creates an energetic rebalancing of your signature.  And your signature is what affects everything—and everyone—around you.  You are, in truth, healing the world when you heal yourself. As each signature rises in frequency through rebalancing, so does the collective’s signature as a whole.

 

Remembering those you lost.

They are never away from you.  They are aspects of you, and they remain with you, to resurface simply through your focus on them.  Those that chose to leave the physical before you wanted them to, did so because it served all involved. Sometimes it takes a few years of linear time to recognize how that loss has benefited you. Places to start:  Expectations, Unconditional Love, Abandonment.

 

You are never alone.  Ever.  If you are reading this, know that these words were written by someone who is also feeling these experiences along with you.  I’ve lost some big things, too:  Everything I owned from a hurricane.  A beloved partner.  And a child.  We, together, are helping the rest of humanity to rebalance themselves; even if they don’t know what “energy” even is.

With this rebalancing, you are remembering how to use negative emotions to create something positive.  This is alchemy.

 

Your gift to this world is immense, and from those who don’t have mouths to speak, there is applause for your courage and dedication to your fellow humans.

 

May love find its way to you in all forms.

 

Kimberly

author: Kimberly

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For those who feel the calling to explore new guidance, you may want to check out Paul Selig‘s books.

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