Want to Really Help Someone? Use The Law of Deliberate Intent

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Rarely does a day go by that we aren’t reminded that someone in our world is a victim; whether that be from a natural disaster, or a bad relationship, or physical illness. It could even be you.

The media is first to provide every juicy detail of victimhood in its daily news reports.  And if you look at your own life, chances are that you were labeled a victim for something you experienced in your past.

It’s an easy trap to fall into.  I’ve been there many times, from losing everything I owned in a hurricane, to losing a child, homelessness, and a painful divorce.  I’m not alone; I am sure you can add your own experiences to mine, and we can hang out with other victims and talk about it.  I was a great victim.

So easy to do.  We receive sympathy, validation and undivided attention while we’re relating our woes.  Victimhood keeps people in the spotlight; but that spotlight is never aimed at the solution.  That’s where the Law of Deliberate Intent comes in.

The Law of Deliberate Intent dictates that what you focus on, expands.

So if your focus is on the details of victimhood, then victimhood persists.

Be careful with ego-fueled responses now.  There is no doubt that people suffer, and it’s important that we ensure that all beings basic needs are met if they are in crisis.  With the Law of Deliberate Intent, we go further and send out the intent that these “victims” move on to live safe, secure, abundant lives.

In other words, we stop focusing on them as victims, and instead focus on their well being.  Recounting the horror over and over again just keeps us all in a low energetic cycle of darkness.

Here is the part that some people find hard to swallow.  Whether or not you want to hear it, I’m going to tell you anyway, because hiding your head in the sand will only get you deeper into it as the tide comes in.

Every victim, everywhere, at all times, has chosen that experience on some level.

Yes. Even in the most extreme case of horrific, unthinkably diabolical actions.  Every victim.  Always.

That’s the way life on Earth works.

 

We incarnate for the opportunity for growth from the interaction with others.  In order for there to be a wide array of opportunities for expansion, some people choose to play parts on the receiving end of negative actions.  The potential for growth is huge, when you add suffering into the mix.  This applies to both the victim himself, and to all of those who are aware of it.

That’s where you come in.

Instead of focusing on the “poor victim” situation, you can focus on those same people and send out the intent that they will fully recover and continue to live abundant, safe lives.

This way, you’re sending out Light instead of continually putting your attention on the Dark.

It’s not hard to do.  You already visualize how you want your own world to look.  You’re just doing it for others, by sending out positive thoughts, and the intent that the situation will be resolved to the Best and Highest Good for all involved.  They may or may not recognize the life lesson involved in their victimhood; that matters not.  That’s free will, and as you awaken, you’ll learn your power to send Light to others, whether they consciously accept it or not.  You’ve done your part by shattering that victim label that so many others will still use.

This is how one person changes the world.  Seems such a small gesture, eh?  But it spreads.  Your actions are noted on an energetic level by the collective, so why not make them focused on positive outcomes rather than dwelling on the occurrence that got that victim where he or she is?

Your focus on the positive outcome is a great use of the Law of Deliberate Intent: Focus on what you want, rather than what you don’t want.  Your contribution raises the energy of the entire collective, which then makes higher-vibration experiences available to everyone.  That’s how powerful you are!

This applies to every situation, everywhere, including your own!

 

Love to all!

 

Kimberly

author: Kimberly

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