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Headphones all the time? You must not want to be bothered.

Do you love bopping down the street with inspiring music on? Lots of us do. That’s why headphones are so pretty nowadays.

So what happens when you’re in the midst of a killer song, and someone stops you to ask you a question? Can’t they see you’re listening to something?

You could be annoyed, having to turn off the tunes, to cater to the moving mouth facing you on the street.

Perhaps they were seeking directions, or—even more regretful in retrospect—they wanted to pay you a compliment.

But the message delivered to you is not the focus of this discussion.  What I want to talk about here is how you felt about being interrupted in the midst of doing something else.

In addition to annoyance, you could have felt fear. After all you don’t know this person, or their intentions. Whatever that feeling is, your initial reaction reflects your current belief about about oneness.

Here on Earth, we are all exploring the theme of separateness through the use of physical bodies. Therefore, we hold some sort of belief about what the “others” out there mean to us. Are they good? Annoying? Unpredictable? Inherently bad? Hopeless sheep? Exciting?

Your view of the nature of “others” shapes the “others” that you meet.

Through encounters such as these, you get to decide who you are. That’s why there are other people in your world at all.

Every.single.person.that.you.meet.is.a.reflection.of.you.

Not just some of the time.  Not just intimate relationships, or family.  Every single person, no matter how short the interaction, is a reflection of you in some way.

Now let’s add a layer:

What if the person who stopped you on the street was wearing tattered clothes? Or if she were a hot woman in a tight dress? Or an elderly person appearing anxious? Or a crying child?

Who are you in each of those situations?

Through introspective contemplation, you can uncover beliefs that might benefit from redesign. By visualizing yourself in each of the scenarios above—and focusing on how you felt during the encounter–you can then discover the unconscious programs that have been governing your behavior.

However you acted, there is a part of you that feels the same way about yourself. Since all people are reflections of you, this person offers you the opportunity to locate that area of blocked energy.  To clear it out. And to choose a better-serving belief from now on.

It’s a remembrance, that every version of us is valid—even the one that catches you by surprise.

This is how we move from separation to integration.

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VIDEO: Using Mind Altering Substances As You Awaken

Do mind-altering substances help or hinder the awakening process?

Kimberly discusses the two loose categories of mind-altering substances: manmade, and those provided by the Earth.

If you take mind-altering substances such as marijuana, LSD, ayahuasca, peyote, San Pedro, DMT or hallucinogenic mushrooms, and feel guilt, consider exploring your societal programming and beliefs about people who regularly alter their minds.

By asking two simple questions, you can gain insight into whether mind-altering substances are assisting, or hindering, your awakening journey.

1. Does the expansiveness remain after you return to your regular state?

2. How do you treat other people when you are “out in the field?”

By reviewing your answers, you will determine if the results of your altered states have a lasting impact on your self-development.

Blooper at the end!

 

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VIDEO: Energetic Crosshatching Visualization

This self-healing visualization is created for those who wish to take larger control of their evolution by eliminating the lower-vibrational areas of the body which house old traumatic events, sad memories and obsolete programming.

Kimberly shows you how to access the memories directly, without reliving the situation that created them, then match their vibration, and replace them with light using energetic crosshatching, or “painting with light.”

You’ll then refill your body with cleansed light to complete the visualization in a higher frequency than that which you started.

I always find it important here to note that if you get into the quiet state necessary to perform this visualization, and you feel intuitively guided to seek medical assistance, then please honor that. Your body is capable of telling you what it needs. Seeing a doctor, if called to do so, is taking responsibility for your health, rather than a weakness. It doesn’t imply that you are subject to 3D matrix oppression. Utilizing this visualization along with any appropriate medical assistance embraces your willingness to view life from varying perspectives, all of which are valid. There is no one right path!

Should you wish for this video to be created in audio format, please let me know.

My greatest desire is to facilitate growth in those who take personal responsibility for their own spiritual, emotional, mental and physical health.

Love.

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VIDEO: Banish Frumpiness! Simplify Your Wardrobe

Awakening redirects our focus inwards, and as Grandma said, a cluttered closet reflects a cluttered mind. Dammit, Grandma was right again.

This video was created for all of those who struggle with mass amounts of unused clothes and shoes in their closets. Not only do those clothes have energy of their own, but if you aren’t using them, they can drain your own energy just by your having them around.

This is a slightly satirical video, so if you are looking for profound wisdom about The Event, or when aliens are going to land on the White House Lawn, then keep searching 🙂

Kimberly does address some “past life” issues, such as poverty, abundance and external approval, that you may be facing if you have a closet full of clothes you just haven’t been able to purge. Remember, your past lives are occurring now, right alongside THIS one that you’re focusing on, so may as well clear out not only your closet, but your antiquated belief systems along the way.

Grandma will be proud when you finally rid yourself of the things that no longer serve you.

Blooper at end.

All photos of awesome lightworkers used with permission. Thanks Mia Donna, Evan and Deb.

woman with umbrella after breakup
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When Your Love Is Not Accepted

You’ve heard that love is the key that opens all locks. So what happens when you encounter a door that won’t open, even if you’re turning the key with all the love you have?

There are times when we love someone so deeply, so completely, and yet they are unwilling—or unable—to reciprocate. So should we hang around and “hold the space” for them until they come to their senses and love us back? Or should we move on in hopes of finding someone else?

That depends on how you feel about yourself. Here’s why:

Every relationship is a reflection of you.  Every person that you are aware of, is giving you the chance to decide who you are in that set of circumstances. They come to you, and you to them, for the opportunity to co-create within this holographic game, via collaborative teamwork.

Not only are you choosing situations that mutually explore your personal themes, but you also get to paint on the Universal canvas, with any brush that you like, with others at your side.

So how you feel about yourself in terms of the relationship you’re experiencing, will determine what you will glean from your partnership.  If you’re awake, you’ll most likely deal with a situation like this in a very different manner than when you’re still asleep.

 

Let’s view an “unhappy” ending from two perspectives: Asleep, and Awake.

 

Karen loves Steve with all her heart.  She gives everything she has, and trusts that everything will work out, aiming for a loving, lifetime partnership.

But Steve isn’t all that into her. She’s good to have around, because she pays her bills, cooks for him, and does laundry every Saturday.  He dreams of greener pastures, with more freedom, where he doesn’t have to talk about his feelings all the time.

Eventually, Karen decides it’s time to move on; she’s exhausted from giving and giving, and receiving nothing in return. She’s heartbroken, worn out, and wildly distrustful of the Universe–with all its talk of “faith,” “belief” and “knowing.”

The time after the breakup is volatile for Karen, with feelings spouting like chronic volcanic eruptions, on both ends of the spectrum. As she heals, she goes within, maybe with a little help from red wine and long days parked in bed.  She processes her feelings, and, after awhile, she emerges back into society…single and opinionated.

 

If Karen is still asleep, she will probably re-enter society with a vengeance.

She’s sick of men and their animalistic behavior. She is worth more than that, and she’ll find someone who will appreciate her. She’ll be looking at the world through glasses tinted with bitterness (“that asshole doesn’t deserve me”), vindication (“He is HER problem now”) and cynicism (“Why bother? Things always end badly anyway”).

Blame will most likely be cast on her partner for his failure to return the love that she gave so freely.

 

If Karen is awake, she will re-enter society with humility.

Most likely, Awake Karen spent her breakup time largely focusing on themes centered around the relationship, rather than the shortcomings of her partner.

Areas of expansion may include self-worth (“why am I unlovable?”), trust (“why would the Universe do this to me?”), or independence (“why can’t I be alone?”).

Awake Karen would see the theme behind the co-creation, and recognize the growth she’ll experience from it.  She might suffer in the process or she might not, depending on how much accountability she bears for her performance in the show. Yet she knows that, ultimately, the relationship served everyone involved, and she appreciates the time they spent together.

So why enter into a relationship at all, if it can “fail” even though we gave it our all?

 

There are times when we, as humans, don’t see the whole picture just yet.

It’s hidden from us, BY us, in order to provide the unknowns necessary for choices to be made. It’s certainly so in the game of love, where expectations whirl like leaves in the autumn wind.

And people grow at different paces, determined by their level of focus, willingness to look within and stabilize themselves from earlier failures, traumas and disappointments.

Self-observation raises your frequency; and we attract those of similar vibration to our own.  If frequencies vary too greatly in a partnership, the relationship will end, to make room for a more-aligned one. It’s always a gift, even if it doesn’t feel like one just after the process.

So hold onto your key, and use it to unlock some doors in your own self.  The more doors you open from within, the more doors will be open out there, in your physical world.

That is true love.

 

Kimberly

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Button Pushing: From Asleep to Awake

There will always be people who push your buttons. They can leave you fuming at the ears…but then you remember that you’re awake, and smacking the shit out of them is no longer a viable option.

Those annoying souls are there for your benefit, you know.  An easy thing to forget when they push too far, through word or action.

I had a person in my life who was incapable of making a supportive statement.  OK, let’s be honest:  he’s a dick.

It doesn’t matter if what they say is true for you or not.  Anything presented to you is from that person’s perspective, and reflects their view of the world.  There will always be people to share their opinions with you, unless you decide to be that guy that meditates in a cave for the rest of your life.

So let’s do a little comparison between how you might react to someone pushing your buttons, back when you were asleep, and now that you’re awake.

I’ll share a recent public statement from my personal button-pusher:

A 52 year old woman can go off her meds and talk shit about unicorns and aliens without her friends and relatives catching her and locking her up until she starts taking her meds again. One day she will start to believe the things she says on You Tube and forget there is a difference between fantasy and reality and try to sell her concepts in the real world and then her friends and family will become the elusive unicorn and alien!  Love always!

Seriously! Love always!?

That is the sign of a soul contract, right there.  Or passive aggression.  Probably both.

So how to react to a statement like that?

As an asleep human, I would go into defense mode.

I might refute in anger the untruths of the statement, or…even worse…retaliate with the most painful dagger to his insecurity that I could muster up in a millisecond.

When we’re asleep, we see each other as separate people, at odds with the world and everyone in it. We’ve forgotten that each person we interact with is merely a reflection of ourselves, presenting an opportunity to discover something about us.

 

Now let’s take a look at how awake people could handle the same situation:

An awake human would recognize the opportunity to respond to any statement, whether negative or positive, with kindness and compassion.

The awakened soul will aim to deliver a response that deflects any negativity, through the understanding of the source delivering it.  Knowing that we are all one, looking at life through different eyes, we respond as if we are looking into a mirror. This maintains karmic balance and is self-love at its best.

Those button-pushers are giving you a gift, to practice your compassionate action.  To put yourself in another’s shoes.  To transmute from a reactive separate person, into a better you that understands the connection between all souls, no matter how separate they may feel.

So how did I respond? Well, I won’t claim to be Buddha. Initially, I devised many daggers to fling; but what good does it do other than create more karma for me to balance? So I said nothing until I felt that I could deliver a positive message, one that asserted my choice to detach from consistently negative people.

I’m sure another button-pusher is well on his way into my life, because that’s how we grow.

How blissful it would be if the awakening process were the simple flick of a switch…from Bitch to Buddha in the blink of an eye.

Don’t expect to be a saint; that’s not why you came to Earth at this time.  In this divinely-orchestrated interactive game board, you get the chance to decide, at every moment, who you will be in any situation.  You’ll have plenty of chances to better yourself, I promise!

And don’t forget that sometimes, the biggest button pusher is you, talking to yourself!  All the more opportunity to send love in the wake of statements that lack it.

Love always!

 

Kimberly

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Move from a Human Being…to a Human Becoming

Do you want the secret of life?  It’s only one sentence.

Can it be that easy?  Well, easy is an attitude, not a process.  Yes, it can be that easy.

It’s more about your attitude than anything else.

The secret of life:

Move from being a victim to taking personal responsibility for every single thing that has, is, or will be happening to you.

For some people, that statement can be a big jump.  We’ve been programmed to give away our power to others: teachers, parents, the government.  After all, they know best, right?

Nope.  You know what’s best for you.  And you don’t know what’s best for others, so Step One:

Focus on you.

Catch that doubt that just dropped in—about being selfish to think like that—and toss that shit out the window.  That’s programming too, and unless you want to stay a victim, then throw it out. If you want your life to change, then you must put yourself in the forefront of your attention.  You can’t light anyone else’s torch without lighting your own first.

 

Now that we’ve got that down, let’s move to Step Two:

You are a powerful creator, who has decided to put a small portion of yourself into a low-vibrational state that looks solid, and you made that portion of you forget that you put yourself there.  

You then set out to reconnect with the other parts of yourself, both visible and invisible. Part of the process of awakening is about remembering that you put yourself in the physical realm in the first place; and that most of you is somewhere else, waiting for you to acknowledge it. Once you have that connection back, you’ll realize the truth of yourself as the creator, by tapping into Universal wisdom that demonstrates, through “coincidences” and synchronicities, that your thoughts are manifesting into the physical.

The Universal laws apply whether you remember them or not. That’s how victims stay victims; by consistently thinking victim thoughts, labeling themselves and others as victims, thus attracting yet more situations of victimhood.  This will continue until one realizes the correlation of their thoughts to their reality.  If this is you, then you are well on your way to recognizing this truth.  It’s a good time to change, if you are tired of being a victim.

Once you understand that you created your reality, then you must take responsibility for every single thing that has happened to you, and also for your judgment of it.  Any feelings of victimhood were simply a choice, and other choices are always available.

If you’re reading this, you are realizing this truth.  As you cognize this truth, you will readily take back the power you previously relinquished to others and you will use this power to create a life that you do want.

 

Finally, Step 3 takes over until you’re done around here:

Recognize that the nature of Life is not just BEING, it’s about BECOMING.

This means that you are constantly expanding through the experience of situations and scenarios…situations and scenarios that you have created for that purpose.

“Being” changes to “becoming” when we embrace that truth, and allowing the higher self to take the joystick to steer us in the direction of our desires.  The act of “becoming” is a dynamic state, rather than a static one.

Ready to try it?  You can start with a mantra, stated with intention and resolve to live your life as a creator who, although you can’t see the whole picture yet, knows that other parts of you can.  It’s just a simple request for assistance:

“I’m a human becoming…help me to become!”

You can use anything you like to speak to the higher part of yourself that can see where you’re headed.  Since you’re endowed with free will, other aspects of “you” will only assist when asked to do so.  It’s you requesting help from yourself, so there’s never any power relinquished in such a statement.

Making the shift from “being” to “becoming” aligns you with the secret of life by right use of the main Universal laws that govern creation:

  • Law of Attraction, by drawing to you the people, events and situations that match your current vibration.
  • Law of Intent, by your stating your particular desires for expansion, and focusing on them with feeling.
  • Law of Allowance, by asking for a bit of help from other parts of you that can see more of the picture.

An entire world is out there for the creating. If you can imagine it, it exists.  Self-empowerment is the secret!

 

*This mantra is a suggested statement from the Handbook of the New Paradigm, written in 1999 by Gary Green.  I’ve included a link below if you want to delve into it more.

 

Kimberly

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Resources

The Universal Laws:  Abraham-Hicks

Handbook of the New Paradigm, by Gary Green.

 

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Challenges Coming At You At Breakneck Speed

Life is funny in that it presents you things quietly, subtly, at first.

It hopes that you recognize the message, and take action on it. That action could be addressing a fear, paying a bill, or learning to trust.

If you don’t get the first message, it will send you a stronger one. And if you don’t get that one? More will come in succession, in larger and larger proportions, until the shit hits you in the face and you have no other option than to deal with it.

The act of meditation provides an option to listen to the subtle messages, but in our world rife with diversions, many claim that they don’t have time to meditate. Similar results can be obtained with other practices, such as physical exercise, creating art, cleaning or cooking, to name a few. It’s when the mind is at rest that we are most receptive to these gentle messages. But sometimes people don’t have time for any of it…and those are the people who are presented with DRAMA, because that’s what it takes to get them to pay attention.

Do you like drama? Great! Then expect that your problems, and their solutions, will necessarily be bigger than life, because that’s what you’ve asked for.  There’s no judgment in that statement; it may just be that you love action and movement and wild, extreme emotions.

In my experience, the youthful years are full of drama, until we gain the wisdom to remember that it can wear us out quickly.  Then, as we experience more in our bodies on Earth, we choose simpler, calmer options for learning.

So if you are encountering a number of hits to your sanity, look at where you may be diverting your attention.  Recognize any patterns from the past that were repeated indicators that your soul is trying to get your attention.

When you find it, address it head on with whatever method feels right to you. Drama or simplicity, your choice.

 

Kimberly

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Stop Butting In: The Universe Knows How to Deliver

We humans love to look to the future.  What’s going to happen?  Will it be good?  Will I get what I want?  Anxiously, we visualize possible paths to our desired “finished product,”  based on linear thinking and our human perspective of the world.  Does it get us there faster? No.

That’s a lot of anxiety, formulating all of those possible paths to your desired thing.

It’s normal for awakening humans to initially doubt the manifestation process.  After all, we chose to live among the constructs of the game: linear time, entrapped energy (solid surroundings), and polarity. It’s only recently that we’re discovering that we’re creating the whole thing…and that waiting is part of the illusion.

So our desires are sent out there, and then the human mind takes over with trying to manifest it.  HOW AM I GOING TO GET THERE?

Here are a couple of examples:

  • “All I need to do is meet this person, and say that, and he will connect me with that person.”
  • “Well that would never work, there is no way that they would give me a chance with my current education. I need to go to school first, and that’s another 4 years…”

It’s never your job to figure that part out.

The power of conscious creation is sending out the desire, with intent, and then letting it go.  Only then can you allow it in.

This can be a little challenging when you are a good visualizer, who likes to refine things out to the minute detail.  That’s totally cool; I’m one of those people too.  Here’s the key to balancing that:

Spend most of your awake time on the finished product, rather than the steps in between.  Be that person that you are in the presence of the finished product (or situation, or partner, or lifestyle…the nature of the finished product doesn’t matter.)

This will amount to more of a feeling, rather than the continual generation of images in your head. No need to constantly imagine different surroundings, or conversations that need to happen. In other words, go about your normal day, right where you are, yet feeling the way you’ll feel with the finished product around.

Now during your meditation, when you are at home and quiet, is when you can use your superpower visualization techniques to include alternate realities (places, times and so on) that make it seem really real to you.  It’s not necessary to do this type of hyper-focused visualization all day long.

It’s a balance of pushing and allowing.

And if you do slip up and start making up a story of how you’re going to get there, recognize that any ideas you may have about your path are merely one of an infinite number of potentialities, not necessarily the way it will play out.  The Universe has a wonderful sense of humor, and there could be more a fun, joyful, and EASIER path to your finished product than your human mind ever imagined.  Be open to everything.

This is how you can be totally accepting of what you have now and still want things.

It’s being focused, with appreciation.

Focus on good things, to curb those lack feelings of not yet having what you want, since focusing on lack diverts your path to the finished product.

 

Let the Universe surprise you.  (It’s what you wanted.)

 

 

*Resource:  If you would like some support on releasing resistance, listening to Abraham-Hicks is motivating.  Plenty of material on YouTube, or web site below.

Abraham-Hicks

 

 

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Trigger Message: Hybrids

This message includes both audio and visual triggers.

If you have dreams or visions of holding a baby that is not yours, or playing with small children, then this message is for you.

More information related to the video:

https://hybridchildrencommunity.com

https://hybridchildren.com

More information on Trigger Messages: These are channeled messages, and are delivered with very descriptive instructions on how to create them, using a variety of media.

They are intended as “creative communication” in order to unlock dormant codes within us. Not all messages may resonate with you, based on your soul plan and its chosen experiences with different realities. Consciousness expands when one goes within and ponders life, rather than looking for answers outside of oneself.

These messages deliver encrypted energy in the form of questions, that invite you to search within yourself for the answers to some of life’s big mysteries. This is my life purpose, and it allows me to utilize all of my creative abilities for the service of others. Love to you.