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Why Crappy Sex Won’t Help You Awaken

The crowning power of humanity lies in the power of sex.

Sexual expression allows for exploration into both the physical reality, and the spiritual one.  Its expressions are as varied as humans themselves, since each individual views sex through a different set of beliefs.

Sex, as it was designed, is a powerful process in which your energy, on multiple levels, merges with the energy of another, on multiple levels.  So beyond grinding and moaning, you are merging with your partner on the non-physical levels too; energetically “hooking” in a cosmic dance that you may or may not know is happening.

And what you believe about sex, whether you support putting Scarlet Letters on the Jezebels, or you fantasize about being suspended by leather straps–it will affect your awakening path like nearly no other theme in human existence.

After you’re finished rolling around in the sheets? You’re still connected.  Even if you never see that partner again, you still carry their hooks. So how do couples “hook” up, energetically speaking?

People choose sex partners for multiple reasons.

All of us want love; it’s the reason we’re here. Yet most aren’t adept at expressing it at this time.  Some want sex for release, some for reassurance, others for ego. And still fewer use sex to strengthen a loving, bonded relationship.

When you have sexual relations with a person, the energy generated between you raises the kundalini–or life force– from the Earth, through the base chakra, and to the sacral chakra.  The sacral chakra, located just below your navel, embodies the portion of your energetic signature related to sexual endeavors, lovability, and power within relationships.

Yet the kundalini energy need not stop at the sacral chakra.  You can bring it up higher, and higher, with you and your partner’s intent to do so.  Now many couples, especially new ones, can easily bring that energy up at least to the heart chakra, for they are in love! We all know how excitement reigns when we meet a similar energy field to our own; the relationship seems effortless. You can barely keep your hands off of each other.

But with crappy, lazy or meaningless sex, as well as any type of exploitative sex, the energy stops there.  Those that view others as a means to an end in the bedroom, will engender beliefs that cease the energy flow any higher than the sacral chakra.  There is a reason!  Until any beliefs centered around the imbalance of power have been reviewed and updated, this pattern will continue and more low-frequency relationships such as this will occur.

But what if you were really looking for that rare, loving and bonded relationship? And you just needed a little release while on your journey?

Ask yourself why you are choosing partners who do not appear to offer what you’re looking for, and why you slept with them anyway.

Starting with that question could open up a coal mine of blocked energy for you to release. Your kundalini level will remain at the sacral chakra until you do.

Want to be on the fast track for healing that stuff?

 

You can bring up the kundalini on your own. You don’t need a partner.

OK, now that your mind has flashed past a bed strewn with vibrators and chrome bullets, let’s talk about other ways besides that one.  (And even that one has a catch.)

Consider dormancy, which is the conscious choice to abstain from sex with any partner that doesn’t match your desired partner’s frequency.  Meaning, you don’t have sex until you feel love.

During dormancy, you choose to take that sexual energy that arises normally for healthy humans, and channel it elsewhere.  The options for channeling this energy are as wide and varied as magic rabbits at Adam & Eve.

You could create art, music, or play a sport.  You could grow a garden.  Write poems.  Volunteer.  Feed someone.  Take horseback riding lessons. Learn to tone.

This sexual energy rumbling within you can be put to better use than a one night stand.  It’s the most powerful form of energy you have, which is why so many aim to profit from it. Applied elsewhere—outward into the world through non-sexual activities—you can enhance the lives of many people far outside the scope of your bedroom.

Dormancy doesn’t require you to take an eternal vow of celibacy.  In actuality it’s the opposite.  Consider it the most focused of training in order to raise your frequency to the point that you attract exactly the lover you desire.

You’ll be on a self-study course to raise your own kundalini without the help of a partner.  This was the original intention of celibacy in the first place, but as we can all see, it doesn’t fit into our modern society so well under the original terms of allowing no outlet whatsoever.

But dormancy, now that’s just a temporary hiatus from sexual relations. If someone came along that matched frequencies and got the heart racing, the engines–now finely tuned and more oiled than ever before–will fire right back up and….

…..until then, you practice recirculating that energy within you, and back out, to the world in your own special non-sexual way.

Here’s the catch! Curb the running to the bright pink rabbit every time you’re stressed out and you need a release. 

Each time you climax without the intent of sharing with a cherished other, you limit your kundalini to the first two chakras; plus, you have just sent more lower energy back out into the world.  The aim is to break that cycle, so intend to recycle the energy in an alternate manner.

As you practice recirculating the energy in other ways, your kundalini can continue its ascent.  To the solar plexus, and the heart, and the throat, the third eye, and up out of the crown.  You can raise it even higher, to the five additional chakras outside of the body; and as one raises the energy to those levels, even more experience will follow for you as these centers are activated, and communications are established with other realms you didn’t even know existed.

This increased frequency puts you in the realm of others of similar vibration.

People looking for the same thing you are; but this time, it includes trust, and love and respect. You will no longer want someone who would settle for crappy sex. You will have been brought together for the right energetic reasons, and now your relationship has a chance.

This attraction will be the culmination of all the work you did during your dormant period, when you were leveling yourself out and generating self love. Work that is much easier done without a partner to divert your attention from self-improvement.  As you repurpose your sexual energy, you will naturally heal any imbalances you had about personal power within relationships, and your feelings about love for yourself, and ultimately others.

Imagine what sex would be like with someone who’s also spent the time and self-love to review their beliefs about intimacy, and having come to healthy terms with these beliefs, has consciously raised their kundalini up and outside to other realms.  Someone who experienced their own state of dormancy, out of respect for themselves; in order to master the most powerful energy available to humanity. Imagine the release that occurs when two people merge at their highest levels, open to explore the realms that are hidden from most.

I don’t know about you, but to me it seems worth the wait.

 

Love to you, in whatever form you choose.

 

Kimberly

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Awakening Rants, Featured, Life on Earth,

When Your Love Is Not Accepted

You’ve heard that love is the key that opens all locks. So what happens when you encounter a door that won’t open, even if you’re turning the key with all the love you have?

There are times when we love someone so deeply, so completely, and yet they are unwilling—or unable—to reciprocate. So should we hang around and “hold the space” for them until they come to their senses and love us back? Or should we move on in hopes of finding someone else?

That depends on how you feel about yourself. Here’s why:

Every relationship is a reflection of you.  Every person that you are aware of, is giving you the chance to decide who you are in that set of circumstances. They come to you, and you to them, for the opportunity to co-create within this holographic game, via collaborative teamwork.

Not only are you choosing situations that mutually explore your personal themes, but you also get to paint on the Universal canvas, with any brush that you like, with others at your side.

So how you feel about yourself in terms of the relationship you’re experiencing, will determine what you will glean from your partnership.  If you’re awake, you’ll most likely deal with a situation like this in a very different manner than when you’re still asleep.

 

Let’s view an “unhappy” ending from two perspectives: Asleep, and Awake.

 

Karen loves Steve with all her heart.  She gives everything she has, and trusts that everything will work out, aiming for a loving, lifetime partnership.

But Steve isn’t all that into her. She’s good to have around, because she pays her bills, cooks for him, and does laundry every Saturday.  He dreams of greener pastures, with more freedom, where he doesn’t have to talk about his feelings all the time.

Eventually, Karen decides it’s time to move on; she’s exhausted from giving and giving, and receiving nothing in return. She’s heartbroken, worn out, and wildly distrustful of the Universe–with all its talk of “faith,” “belief” and “knowing.”

The time after the breakup is volatile for Karen, with feelings spouting like chronic volcanic eruptions, on both ends of the spectrum. As she heals, she goes within, maybe with a little help from red wine and long days parked in bed.  She processes her feelings, and, after awhile, she emerges back into society…single and opinionated.

 

If Karen is still asleep, she will probably re-enter society with a vengeance.

She’s sick of men and their animalistic behavior. She is worth more than that, and she’ll find someone who will appreciate her. She’ll be looking at the world through glasses tinted with bitterness (“that asshole doesn’t deserve me”), vindication (“He is HER problem now”) and cynicism (“Why bother? Things always end badly anyway”).

Blame will most likely be cast on her partner for his failure to return the love that she gave so freely.

 

If Karen is awake, she will re-enter society with humility.

Most likely, Awake Karen spent her breakup time largely focusing on themes centered around the relationship, rather than the shortcomings of her partner.

Areas of expansion may include self-worth (“why am I unlovable?”), trust (“why would the Universe do this to me?”), or independence (“why can’t I be alone?”).

Awake Karen would see the theme behind the co-creation, and recognize the growth she’ll experience from it.  She might suffer in the process or she might not, depending on how much accountability she bears for her performance in the show. Yet she knows that, ultimately, the relationship served everyone involved, and she appreciates the time they spent together.

So why enter into a relationship at all, if it can “fail” even though we gave it our all?

 

There are times when we, as humans, don’t see the whole picture just yet.

It’s hidden from us, BY us, in order to provide the unknowns necessary for choices to be made. It’s certainly so in the game of love, where expectations whirl like leaves in the autumn wind.

And people grow at different paces, determined by their level of focus, willingness to look within and stabilize themselves from earlier failures, traumas and disappointments.

Self-observation raises your frequency; and we attract those of similar vibration to our own.  If frequencies vary too greatly in a partnership, the relationship will end, to make room for a more-aligned one. It’s always a gift, even if it doesn’t feel like one just after the process.

So hold onto your key, and use it to unlock some doors in your own self.  The more doors you open from within, the more doors will be open out there, in your physical world.

That is true love.

 

Kimberly

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Trigger Message: Shapeshifting

How do you present yourself to the world? Is it the same every time you leave the house?

The octopus is the ultimate shapeshifter.

This trigger message is created for those who may feel weary about the Lightworker’s responsibility for healing and saving the world.

It’s time to let that old, suffering martyr go, and try some new looks on for size. Shapeshifting is about finding the real you, and it is OK to change your mind! You can look differently, talk differently or move differently from one day to another, while still maintaining the authentic you at your core.

Go have some fun!

(There’s a blooper at the end).

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how to know that you're over your ex
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How Awake People Know They’re Over an Ex

So you’re waking up, and you’ll see some relationships fall away. The inward journey then begins, where you might replay situations over in your head in an attempt to find out what went wrong.  Was it you?  Was it them? Will you ever get over it?

Simply being awake doesn’t necessarily mean that the end of relationships is any easier.  In fact, when you allow yourself to actually FEEL, you could experience pain that you would have previously pushed aside or stuffed down in order to move on with your life.

That’s great!  Feel it! It sucks, I know.  I’ve had my heart broken into minuscule pieces and stomped on, as I’m certain you’ve had too.

And I’m sure that you know by now that stuffing those feelings down, whether it be emotionally, physically or spiritually, doesn’t serve you.  Not only do you fail to glean the lesson from the relationship, you’ll also dredge up those unaddressed issues in future relationships unless you clear them out.

There are plenty of ways to do this, including counseling, crying uncontrollably on the floor for a while, or writing in a journal. Feel that stuff, and let it go.

So how do you know when you are fully over someone, and ready to move on to another relationship?

I made a handy chart for you.

how to know that you're over your ex

Note that at the beginning of a breakup, you may experience base feelings such as hate, anger, jealousy and other immediate reactions.  Such feelings are associated with the lower two chakras: the base chakra and the sacral chakra.  These are common initial responses to a breakup.

As you heal—and not generally in a linear fashion, as denoted by the jagged line—your focus will move upward to the higher chakras; feelings related to those energy centers will be more balanced, and head towards greater respect and compassion for your ex. These include acceptance (solar plexus), forgiveness (heart) and wishing your ex well on his or her journey (throat chakra).

Still further along in your healing, you’ll finally move to gratitude and thankfulness for their contribution to your lesson.

This shows that you’ve created a balance among the upper energy centers of the third eye (seeing the reason for the relationship) and the crown chakra (thanking your ex for his or her contribution to your growth.)

How long does this take?  Unfortunately, there is no set formula. Variables such as the length of your relationship, the magnitude of the soul lesson, and whether others (such as children) are affected, will all determine your particular healing path.

What’s important is your recognition of your progress!  Are you able to look back at the person you WERE, and compare it with the person you are NOW?  Such comparisons are the only ones worth making, so please recognize and honor yourself for your growth.

This will prepare you for the next relationship as a better, more loving partner.

Love to you!

 

Kimberly

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Been Waiting For Your Twin Flame? What’s Taking So Long?

The Twin Flame Experiment is in full swing, and unions are occurring around the world.  Still waiting for yours?  Doubting you have one? Both are good questions right about now.  It’s time to get internal.

I would love to give you news like all of those YouTube channels that display Hindu gods and goddesses, enrobed in jewel colors, intertwined in an eternal kiss of everlasting love.  I would love to be another one of those people that gives you readings that your Flame is just around the corner, and when you meet, then everything in life will be perfect. But that’s not my gift.

My particular gift is to trigger you into remembrance of what life is really all about.

And sometimes that means providing you with an internal perspective of what concepts like the Twin Flame experiment really encompass.

 

The Twin Flame experiment is part of a collective soul contract, in which 5th dimensional beings have the opportunity to ramp up the Earth’s frequency by incarnating into two (whole) parts at the same time: one masculine, and one feminine. They live two separate lives, going through their individual stuff, learning and remembering such lessons as heartbreak, security, abandonment, lovability and unconditional love.

The purpose of this division is to play out the illusion of polarity, from both the male/female aspect, as well as the separation/integration aspect, of a soul’s existence on the physical plane. Twins, as they are called, will come into union after a certain amount of inner work is done, making them better candidates for bonded relationships that foster growth for both parties…AND multiplying their energy for the benefit of humanity.

Once union–or integration–occurs, then that couple, as two complete souls combining their energy as one, emanates an exponential amount of light versus the two separate entities alone.

So 1+1 does not equal 2 in the case of those enrolled in the Twin Flame experiment.

In the case of Twin Flames, 1 + 1 = 10

Think about what this would do for modern-day Earth, where we are playing out the Dark vs Light scenario in full force right now.  You don’t have to look far to see that those of negative polarity are having their final temper tantrum, rising up in any way they can in a final fury before the Light succeeds in being the prevailing polarity for Earth’s inhabitants.

When two super-charged twins unite, that’s all the more powerful light to shine on the collective.  And this is why the Twin Flame experiment is coming to fruition in these next years.

So are you part of this experiment? Do you feel like there is someone out there that mirrors you?  Perhaps you only experience the connection on the astral plane, through voices in your head, a feeling of deep love for someone you don’t even know, or the feeling of not being alone.

If you feel like you have a Twin, and you’re frustrated that he or she is not in your physical plane, then read on.

We’ll put aside the entwined-lover scenario for a second, and go internal, because ALL of life is really just internal anyway.

That part of you that is in 5D is integrated to the point of not needing physicality.  Incarnation is a choice, and many of our 5D selves chose physicality at this time and place as a service to his fellow souls.

In the case of twins, that 5D part of you wanted to both assist the collective and also grow on a personal level, through living life on the same timeline from different perspectives.  So it splits itself up into a 4D portion (the non-physical part that you feel, sense or hear in your head) and a 3D portion (the physical body.)

So the 5D YOU divided itself into four portions, each with all of the powers of the whole:

Divine Feminine in 4D (non-physical)
Divine Feminine in 3D (physical)

and

Divine Masculine in 4D (non-physical)
Divine Masculine in 3D (physical)

 

And then you forgot! And you’re set free to live lives, from FOUR different perspectives. And the name of the game is to integrate ALL of those perspectives into one, by remembering your power as the creator of the whole experiment in the first place.

When you do this, it’s a win-win situation:  for both the collective, and on a personal level.

So first, you may encounter your twin in your dreams or in meditation (non-physical); and you two will build up a relationship between your non-physical selves.  This is your integration on the non-physical level. 4D + 4D.

And this is where lots of us get stuck.  We yearn for the 3D + 3D part of the equation. We want the integration on the 3D level so much more—to experience the sensation of touching, kissing, feeling of security, and….sex.  And we wonder where that damn twin is. And we start looking all around us, second-guessing the perfection of the Divine Design, trying to push things along.

We question the Universe…which turns to begging, and will eventually transform into self doubt:

  • “Is she with someone else?”
  • “What if he isn’t attracted to me?  Am I too fat?”
  • “Where do I have to go to meet her?”

That initiates a wild ride along the rapids of self deprecation, and it’s easy to be pulled along with the negative current. Perhaps it’s time to remember who is creating your show in the first place.

It’s YOU.


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Your twin is merely another aspect of yourself. When you make that merge in 4D, then it’s time to go inward and ask yourself what work needs to be done on the YOU that will make up your portion of the relationship.

Because it isn’t about whether your twin will find you attractive.  It’s whether YOU find yourself attractive.

It isn’t about if your twin is in the right place at the right time.  It’s about YOU being in a place of joy that will bring that twin, also in a place of joy, to you.

In other words, you must BE the person you want your twin to be.  Because you’re really only integrating your separate selves together anyway.  You must be in that vibration to attract it to you. Every time.  No exceptions.

Are you in that vibration?

Or are you waiting for the perfect partner to show up when you’re not even sure who YOU are yet?

Again, it all comes down to frequency, and that is an internal job, every time.  If you feel that you have a counterpart out there that is the “yin” to your “yang,” or the “yang” to your “yin,” then that person will show up when you’re truly yourself.  All the time.  Good and bad.  Cranky and bubbly.  Tired and energized. Mean and nice.

It’s not about being perfect.  It’s about being YOU, with all of your quirky traits, and your idiosyncrasies, and your recognition of areas in which you could grow. It’s about acceptance of who you are, right now.  And any twin that’s worthy of your time is doing the same thing in his or her life right now too.

That person exists, out there, in the physical, yet just out of sight.  As within, so without.

Look inside to see what’s showing up for you outside…and you will remember the Meaning of Life.

 

Kimberly

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Awakening Rants, Daily Energy Report, Featured, Oneness,

Twinflames – Huge Wave Coming Together Soon

If you feel like you have a mirror of yourself out there, and you’ve begun to feel communication on the spiritual level, then your time is most likely near to meet in the physical.

Ever feel like you KNOW your twinflame is out there?  That He/she who will seem to be so much like you that you can barely imagine how happy you’d be if you joined with this person?  Someone who understands you, accepts you for who you are, and who wants to grow alongside of you as you share your individual paths?

In essence: WHOLE meets WHOLE.  This is a twinflame.

If you are feeling this pull, this attraction, then don’t dismiss it.  Since you are creating your own world, you are sending yourself a very strong indication that you are about to join together.  Remember that the Universe delivers in many ways, so try to avoid having strict expectations about how, when or where you will meet.

Yes, you are creating this person, just as he/she is creating you; both of you are undergoing changes in order to be the person you’d want to meet.

The key to understanding your part in this reality is that, although you are the creator of your reality, you gave other souls the ability to play parts in your simulation; and you gave them free will to develop their own path, so that you could enjoy some surprises.  It would be pretty damned boring if you already knew every detail of when and how you’d meet your twinflame.

So do you just sit around and wait?  Yeah, don’t.  You wanted this anticipation, this journey.  So enjoy that excitement, knowing that it’s coming.  Keep yourself distracted with joyful things until that time comes. And when you’re focusing on something else…that’s when it happens.

These unions are part of what is called the Twin Flame Experiment, which is a group of soul agreements coming to fruition in this space/time to fulfill contracts put in place prior to incarnation.

One of the reasons behind the Twin Flame Experiment is to gauge the magnitude of influence of two already-powerful souls when united, and how the union serves humanity as Earth ascends.

As I’ve said before, when Lightworkers unite in the physical (oh and wait until you have sex!!!!!) the positive power isn’t 1+1=2…

It’s 1+1=10.

This is what you’re in for, dear Lightworkers, you who have worked so hard to better yourselves; you who have waited for the One that will bring out your best qualities, will grow with you, and who shares similar beliefs about your reality.

These unions will occur in waves, since that’s a ton of power bombarding the world all at once. You know how strong the attraction is at the beginning of a relationship.  You can barely keep your hands off each other!

So these unions will be spread out throughout the summer, again in October, and again early next year.  It’s necessary to temper the amount of energy bombarding Earth at any one time lest nervous systems get fried.  Yeah, it’s that much energy that our bodies need to learn to adapt to it.  Exciting stuff.

I hope each of you find love, devotion and respect from whomever makes your heart sing.  How delicious.

 

Earth Energy:

Colors:

Red

Black

 

Numbers:

444 (All is well)

777 (Everything is in divine order)

 


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*And as for MY twin flame, here is a message for you:

I know who you are, Sparky.  The ball is in your court.  And two seats are better than one.

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Awakening Signs, Daily Energy Report, Life on Earth, Oneness,

How Do You Treat People in Your Fantasies?

One of the amazing parts of human incarnation is the ability to feel with our five physical senses.  Those not in physical bodies don’t have this advantage, which is why Earth is such a happening place right now.

The ability to perfect the melding of conscious awareness with the physical human experience is of greatest benefit to you, because you have a 360-degree view of your reality from within, and also from without.  That’s good shit, right there.

This combo of ability to visualize what isn’t yet in our physical surroundings, yet feel that visualization in our physical body is what manifestation is all about.

It’s you, fantasizing.

Let’s talk about the fantasies that we all have.

There are the positive fantasies of being able to retire on your own island to never work another day in your life, and then there are the more dualistic fantasies perhaps of a darker nature.

I mean, Fifty Shades of Grey did pretty well in the box office.  That’s all I need to say on that one.

Since you are living in a reality of your own creation, you have free will to choose any fantasy you can imagine, and focus upon it. This is the creative process at work. You are using your imagination to create your surroundings and experiences; wild, or tame, or anything in between.

Rarely does it occur that your fantasies include only you.  There are other players helping you to fulfill your dreams. Today, check out how you are treating those other people in your fantasies.

Are you treating them with the same love and respect with which you’d want to be treated?  Or are they submissive, weak and bidding to your every will?  Are you equals in the fantasy, or is there a power play?

Examining this part of you can open up doors to the self that may need some attention.

Remember, you are the creator of all of your relationships, even before they arrive in your physical existence. Fantasies are a good indication of where you’re headed.

 

Earth Energy:

Colors:

Maroon

Red

 

Numbers

1144 (seek ways to work more efficiently)

544 (acknowledge your hard work related to growth)

 

Kimberly

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What If This Life Experience Is Just a Game?

If you knew that all of Life were just a game, and we’re all playing it virtual-reality style, what would you do differently?

What if you knew that you were completely safe to make any decision you desired, create anything you want to see, experience or love, and you understood that everyone involved was just as safe as you are?

Would you:

  • Take more risks?
  • Love more often?
  • Address the hateful parts of yourself because the game isn’t as much fun when you’re the bad guy?

Today, go about your day from the perspective that it’s just a game, and the object of the game is to be love.  Look at everyone that comes into your point of view as a fellow player, perfect just like you, and wanting to have his own experience of the game.

See what happens.

 

Earth Energy:

Colors:

White

Teal

 

Numbers:

553 (Major life changes to align you with your soul mission)

333 (Your team is with you)

 

Shape:

Your team is coming back together.

 

Kimberly

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Feeling Abandoned? Why They Chose to Leave You

No relationship is ever an accident, and no separation is either.

As you learn when you wake up, relationships are created in order for you to learn more about yourself. Every person that you meet, whether it is for one minute or 50 years, is a mirror reflection back to you so that you can make choices about who you want to be. This is how we grow.

So what happens when someone you love leaves?

Relationships last for as long as they are supposed to, based on your soul’s theme for this lifetime. It is a human notion that relationships should last forever or they are considered a failure.

That is linear thinking, supported by institutions that benefit from you feeling abandoned.

However from the broader perspective of your oversouls, this is acknowledgment that you’ve both accomplished your mission together.

On the Earthly plane, it just appears as a breakup, a fight, or a scandal, or even death.

But to your souls, this is cause for celebration, because when one relationship ends such as this, a new one will replace it. This will be a person who is more equal to your vibration and is right for mirroring your next theme back to you. Continued progression through yourself.  That’s what’s happening.

Don’t forget also, that the experience your soul is wishing to have in mourning the loss of that person.  So make sure to process that sadness and feeling of abandonment, or you’ll be receiving another opportunity to mourn again.

When it comes to death, this can be painful. When a body dies, the soul always has the opportunity to return back to its current incarnation—to come back.

So why would they choose not to come back to you? Knowing that the choice not to come back was a conscious one, those feelings of abandonment feel multiplied. The lesson remains the same, in that your both had accomplished your growth goals for that relationship. From its perspective, it knows that it will always be with you. Even if you are unconscious of it while in your human body. There is always love.

Souls are always connected, even if your human self forgets that right now.

And you can rest assured that the next new opportunity for you will be coming soon.

 

Earth Energy:

Colors:

Black

Maroon

 

Numbers:

989 (auspicious new opportunity)

333 (loved ones are with you now)

 

Kimberly

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when you are alone on valentines day
Awakening Rants, Daily Energy Report, Life on Earth,

How to Avoid Snarkiness When Alone on Valentine’s Day

If you’re with a partner, appreciate them for everything they are.  If you’re not, well, remember that self-love is important too.

SERIOUSLY? That statement incites total snarkiness in me.  All those people gushing with love, holding hands over dinner…and we all KNOW how many diamond rings cross restaurant tables on a day like today.

Does that make you less than warm-and-fuzzy when none of those couples include YOU?

I get it.  Me too.

And this very 3D energy—that feeling of lack that surrounds you on all sides when it seems like everyone else is celebrating their abundance—is totally normal.  In fact, it’s almost expected, based on how we were programmed to believe that you are nothing without a partner.

And it’s not so easy to just make the switch to sending out compassionate love to every living being on Earth, when the belief systems sit so deep.  And awakened being, it’s OK to be where you are right now, feeling a little envious, sad or lonely.

Yet you have an extra piece of the puzzle that fits in….right THERE….that is the reminder that you can feel a feeling, and let it go; and then reach for a better feeling, a higher vibration, to get you out of your funk.  And you also know that as you raise your frequency, you help all of the others around you to feel better too, just by shining your light upon them. And you ALSO know that every time you send out love, you are sending it back to yourself.

Feel the shit you feel today.  Recognize it.  Then do whatever you need to do to feel better.  Pictures of fuzzy kittens, exercise, whatever.  And then send out that love to everyone you meet, even if they are wearing a shiny new ring.

 

Earth Energy:

Colors:

Red

Black

 

Numbers:

333 (Your guides are by your side)

000 (You are one with the Universe)

 

If you want to learn how to send out a LOVE BOMB, click here.

 

Kimberly

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