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girl with headphones
Awakening Rants, Life on Earth, Oneness,

Headphones all the time? You must not want to be bothered.

Do you love bopping down the street with inspiring music on? Lots of us do. That’s why headphones are so pretty nowadays.

So what happens when you’re in the midst of a killer song, and someone stops you to ask you a question? Can’t they see you’re listening to something?

You could be annoyed, having to turn off the tunes, to cater to the moving mouth facing you on the street.

Perhaps they were seeking directions, or—even more regretful in retrospect—they wanted to pay you a compliment.

But the message delivered to you is not the focus of this discussion.  What I want to talk about here is how you felt about being interrupted in the midst of doing something else.

In addition to annoyance, you could have felt fear. After all you don’t know this person, or their intentions. Whatever that feeling is, your initial reaction reflects your current belief about about oneness.

Here on Earth, we are all exploring the theme of separateness through the use of physical bodies. Therefore, we hold some sort of belief about what the “others” out there mean to us. Are they good? Annoying? Unpredictable? Inherently bad? Hopeless sheep? Exciting?

Your view of the nature of “others” shapes the “others” that you meet.

Through encounters such as these, you get to decide who you are. That’s why there are other people in your world at all.

Every.single.person.that.you.meet.is.a.reflection.of.you.

Not just some of the time.  Not just intimate relationships, or family.  Every single person, no matter how short the interaction, is a reflection of you in some way.

Now let’s add a layer:

What if the person who stopped you on the street was wearing tattered clothes? Or if she were a hot woman in a tight dress? Or an elderly person appearing anxious? Or a crying child?

Who are you in each of those situations?

Through introspective contemplation, you can uncover beliefs that might benefit from redesign. By visualizing yourself in each of the scenarios above—and focusing on how you felt during the encounter–you can then discover the unconscious programs that have been governing your behavior.

However you acted, there is a part of you that feels the same way about yourself. Since all people are reflections of you, this person offers you the opportunity to locate that area of blocked energy.  To clear it out. And to choose a better-serving belief from now on.

It’s a remembrance, that every version of us is valid—even the one that catches you by surprise.

This is how we move from separation to integration.

Expecting the Worst?
Awakening Rants, Trigger Messages, Videos,

VIDEO: Do You Always Expect the Worst?

Are you one of those people who are always expecting the worst out of every situation? After all, it didn’t work out last time, so why should it work out this time, right?

NOPE!

Here, Kimberly talks about history, and why it doesn’t matter how things worked out last time. You are a completely new person from the person that experienced a bad situation last time. And there is no need to expect that every situation works out for the worst.

Learn how to allow all probabilities into your field, including the probability that things will work out just fine for you. This is the path of the master creator!

 

private island
Awakening Rants, Trigger Messages, Videos,

VIDEO: The Collective Needs You

Recent arrests of key individuals working through Darkness have many of us wondering if Earth is going to make it.

Graphic  images and videos are flooding the media. What will happen? Who is involved and how does it affect me?

Can we trust no one with our children?

When an old system crumbles, things may appear chaotic in your external environment. Be prepared for your mission as a Lightworker to assist the collective. Each thought you send out affects us all, and you are constantly setting an example of a well-balanced aspect of Source. Now is the time to examine your behavior and where you’re putting your energy while you view these new developments.

Here Kimberly discusses how to stay neutral despite gut-wrenching news, videos and images that are now circling in the media. It’s your responsibility as a Lightworker to be the transducer of energy that fosters humanity’s evolution. The time is now to think for yourself and act accordingly.

 

leopard gecko
Awakening Rants, Life on Earth, Oneness,

Mean No Harm

There is a fruit fly that stays with me when I’m writing.

Perching on the laptop, walking across the screen.  Sometimes on the mouse, just where my thumb should be.

As I pull some oracle cards, it seems that wherever I am just about to put a card down, there is the fly; in peril of sudden demise during my morning reading.

“It’s just a fruit fly,”  I’ve had friends say. “Those and spiders….they don’t count.  Those get squished.”

Now I’ve long passed the period of judgment about the value of life.  If you get too deep into it, the militant vegans and the well-meaning carnivores battle it out, and I no longer wish to participate in that sort of thing.

Your interpretation of the value of life is yours alone.  And although I would never intentionally hurt a living being, there are times when it happens without my intention.

Like the time I stepped on a gecko on my porch, severing its tail.  I watched it wriggle around in what I imagined was excruciating pain—caused by me!!!!—understandably, after the severance of a major portion of its body.  I bawled my eyes out over my infliction of pain on a helpless animal.  Like for hours.  A bit of an overreaction, but that’s the sign that there’s more to the situation than at first glance.

Of course, tails can grow back on many species of reptiles.  But no matter.  I was in it for the lesson.

After days of contemplation, I adopted a missive whenever I contemplate the value of life:

Mean No Harm.

With these three words, one can view the cycle of life from a loving perspective.  And yet the subtle interpretation of these words can take on different meanings for different people.  And that’s a great way to live.  To allow others to interpret things as they will, and to remember that your different interpretation is just as valid.

I welcome you to try it.  Mean No Harm. 

If you’re a spider squisher, pause for a minute before you pull the shoe out next time.  Does your action correlate with your current interpretation of “Mean No Harm?” 

And if you are one of those that will spend an hour struggling to rehome a bug outside, ask yourself the same question.

What do the words “Mean No Harm” represent for you at this moment?  Has your definition of “Harm” changed?

There are no right or wrong answers. This is about you, evolving.  Being a Darwin, I take the lead in adding an appropriate pun:

You’re regrowing your tail.

As our perspective broadens, we revaluate our definitions of things. So asking yourself this question may bring beliefs to the surface heretofore unseen.  Any experiences since last contemplating this concept will enhance your opinion.

And as for the fruit fly, to me it’s a guide.  They come in all shapes and sizes, quietly presenting me with an option to give it relevance.  To me, it represents a tiny portion of the All, with just as much right to my environment as I have.  I am, therefore, very careful where I place my cards.

Love to you.

 

Kimberly

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The Lizzies
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VIDEO: The Lizzies

Who are the Lizzies? And why do they sound both fuzzy and frightening at the same time?

The Lizzies is a term denoted by the Pleiadians to describe the Reptilian race.

Conspiracy theories are rampant about these beings, who allegedly comprise the underbelly of Earth society such as the Black Nobility, the Illuminati, or the Dark Forces. Purported to be the backbone of the shadow government, the Lizzies are playing a very important part on Earth at this time.

Here, Kimberly discusses the Lizzies from her perspective of a conscious creator, and she invites those who are remembering their role as creators of their own specific reality to ask “what is the truth?”

And in Kimberly manner, the answer is always about what’s going on internally. Polarity is provided to us as an Earth construct so that we may make choices about what we want our reality to be.

You are free to choose the Lizzies to represent the oppression by shadow governments…or a learning experience for all involved, including those we brought into our lives to play the bad guy.

Links promised from video:

Rob Gauthier channeling of TReb https://www.youtube.com/user/TReBoryitNE

Kalask channeled through David Lauer
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBnZs2DJ_yRupP9yR5h8nDg

About the Pleiadians
Barbara Marciniak – Bringers of the Dawn

Remember to always use discernment whenever reviewing any external material (including mine). If it doesn’t feel right in your gut, then it’s not your reality. There is no one reality. You get to choose.

And also remember, that belief systems run deep, and repetition is key for humans at this time. You may see information repeating itself throughout many sources. This is for your benefit, because doubt is the ego’s insidious accomplice.

Love!

raising kundalini
Awakening Rants, Featured, Life on Earth,

Why Crappy Sex Won’t Help You Awaken

The crowning power of humanity lies in the power of sex.

Sexual expression allows for exploration into both the physical reality, and the spiritual one.  Its expressions are as varied as humans themselves, since each individual views sex through a different set of beliefs.

Sex, as it was designed, is a powerful process in which your energy, on multiple levels, merges with the energy of another, on multiple levels.  So beyond grinding and moaning, you are merging with your partner on the non-physical levels too; energetically “hooking” in a cosmic dance that you may or may not know is happening.

And what you believe about sex, whether you support putting Scarlet Letters on the Jezebels, or you fantasize about being suspended by leather straps–it will affect your awakening path like nearly no other theme in human existence.

After you’re finished rolling around in the sheets? You’re still connected.  Even if you never see that partner again, you still carry their hooks. So how do couples “hook” up, energetically speaking?

People choose sex partners for multiple reasons.

All of us want love; it’s the reason we’re here. Yet most aren’t adept at expressing it at this time.  Some want sex for release, some for reassurance, others for ego. And still fewer use sex to strengthen a loving, bonded relationship.

When you have sexual relations with a person, the energy generated between you raises the kundalini–or life force– from the Earth, through the base chakra, and to the sacral chakra.  The sacral chakra, located just below your navel, embodies the portion of your energetic signature related to sexual endeavors, lovability, and power within relationships.

Yet the kundalini energy need not stop at the sacral chakra.  You can bring it up higher, and higher, with you and your partner’s intent to do so.  Now many couples, especially new ones, can easily bring that energy up at least to the heart chakra, for they are in love! We all know how excitement reigns when we meet a similar energy field to our own; the relationship seems effortless. You can barely keep your hands off of each other.

But with crappy, lazy or meaningless sex, as well as any type of exploitative sex, the energy stops there.  Those that view others as a means to an end in the bedroom, will engender beliefs that cease the energy flow any higher than the sacral chakra.  There is a reason!  Until any beliefs centered around the imbalance of power have been reviewed and updated, this pattern will continue and more low-frequency relationships such as this will occur.

But what if you were really looking for that rare, loving and bonded relationship? And you just needed a little release while on your journey?

Ask yourself why you are choosing partners who do not appear to offer what you’re looking for, and why you slept with them anyway.

Starting with that question could open up a coal mine of blocked energy for you to release. Your kundalini level will remain at the sacral chakra until you do.

Want to be on the fast track for healing that stuff?

 

You can bring up the kundalini on your own. You don’t need a partner.

OK, now that your mind has flashed past a bed strewn with vibrators and chrome bullets, let’s talk about other ways besides that one.  (And even that one has a catch.)

Consider dormancy, which is the conscious choice to abstain from sex with any partner that doesn’t match your desired partner’s frequency.  Meaning, you don’t have sex until you feel love.

During dormancy, you choose to take that sexual energy that arises normally for healthy humans, and channel it elsewhere.  The options for channeling this energy are as wide and varied as magic rabbits at Adam & Eve.

You could create art, music, or play a sport.  You could grow a garden.  Write poems.  Volunteer.  Feed someone.  Take horseback riding lessons. Learn to tone.

This sexual energy rumbling within you can be put to better use than a one night stand.  It’s the most powerful form of energy you have, which is why so many aim to profit from it. Applied elsewhere—outward into the world through non-sexual activities—you can enhance the lives of many people far outside the scope of your bedroom.

Dormancy doesn’t require you to take an eternal vow of celibacy.  In actuality it’s the opposite.  Consider it the most focused of training in order to raise your frequency to the point that you attract exactly the lover you desire.

You’ll be on a self-study course to raise your own kundalini without the help of a partner.  This was the original intention of celibacy in the first place, but as we can all see, it doesn’t fit into our modern society so well under the original terms of allowing no outlet whatsoever.

But dormancy, now that’s just a temporary hiatus from sexual relations. If someone came along that matched frequencies and got the heart racing, the engines–now finely tuned and more oiled than ever before–will fire right back up and….

…..until then, you practice recirculating that energy within you, and back out, to the world in your own special non-sexual way.

Here’s the catch! Curb the running to the bright pink rabbit every time you’re stressed out and you need a release. 

Each time you climax without the intent of sharing with a cherished other, you limit your kundalini to the first two chakras; plus, you have just sent more lower energy back out into the world.  The aim is to break that cycle, so intend to recycle the energy in an alternate manner.

As you practice recirculating the energy in other ways, your kundalini can continue its ascent.  To the solar plexus, and the heart, and the throat, the third eye, and up out of the crown.  You can raise it even higher, to the five additional chakras outside of the body; and as one raises the energy to those levels, even more experience will follow for you as these centers are activated, and communications are established with other realms you didn’t even know existed.

This increased frequency puts you in the realm of others of similar vibration.

People looking for the same thing you are; but this time, it includes trust, and love and respect. You will no longer want someone who would settle for crappy sex. You will have been brought together for the right energetic reasons, and now your relationship has a chance.

This attraction will be the culmination of all the work you did during your dormant period, when you were leveling yourself out and generating self love. Work that is much easier done without a partner to divert your attention from self-improvement.  As you repurpose your sexual energy, you will naturally heal any imbalances you had about personal power within relationships, and your feelings about love for yourself, and ultimately others.

Imagine what sex would be like with someone who’s also spent the time and self-love to review their beliefs about intimacy, and having come to healthy terms with these beliefs, has consciously raised their kundalini up and outside to other realms.  Someone who experienced their own state of dormancy, out of respect for themselves; in order to master the most powerful energy available to humanity. Imagine the release that occurs when two people merge at their highest levels, open to explore the realms that are hidden from most.

I don’t know about you, but to me it seems worth the wait.

 

Love to you, in whatever form you choose.

 

Kimberly

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gray hair and karma
Awakening Rants, Featured, Life on Earth,

When the Universe Gives You Gray Hair

Do you have gray hair you’ve been fighting to hide for years?  If so, then you could feel trapped by belief systems about aging, self-worth and

One of the greatest journeys a human takes is deciding when to stop coloring his or her hair. It’s a societal norm to cover those grays for as long as possible, since our culture lauds youth as an accomplishment.

Kimberly, who went gray in her 20’s, shares the humorous journey as she allowed her hair to grow out in its natural gray pattern for years, only to cave in to Western culture’s pressures and color her hair all over again.

With resolve this time, Kimberly is rebooting her journey, which takes years, in hopes that documenting it will assist others to make the right choice about presenting their authentic selves to the world.

As always, it starts from the inside!

belief in impossible things
Awakening Rants, Featured, Life on Earth, The Esoteric,

Believing the Impossible: You CAN Be The First

Once we solidify the understanding that we are creating our reality, we start contemplating the viability of things—wild things—generally thought impossible.

“You can’t do that,” that old grumpy ego self tells you.  “No one has ever done that.”

And the new you?  Soon enough, if not already, you’ll answer with “Watch me.”

We’ve been living under a veil of limitations that is now lifted, and should you choose to embrace that, the sky is the limit.  And simply because no human has seemingly done something you would like to do, is not indication that it’s impossible.  It merely hasn’t been done yet, to your knowledge.

Think of some occurrences that we would never have thought possible, until someone tried them:

  • Someone believed that willow bark can heal any number of ailments, including staving off heart attacks. Now it’s called aspirin.
  • Someone believed that a mile could be run in 4 minutes, despite being told it was physically impossible.  Roger Bannister believed it, and since that day in 1954, over 1400 athletes have followed suit (some shaving another 15 seconds off of Roger’s time.)
  • It was widely believed in the late 1800s that the maximum possible speed any human could ever travel without suffocating was around 30mph. No reference needed here if you have ever driven on a California highway.
  • Someone said “It’s quite possible that within the next 100 years there will be a telephone in every town.” He was laughed at, apparently. That was Alexander Graham Bell.  He didn’t think big enough, in my opinion.

My point:

There is always a first.  If you desire to do something seemingly impossible in today’s world, yet can’t let go of the doubts, then check your beliefs about self-worth.

You no longer need to live within the status quo.  It was always a choice, by the way, but you forgot.  Now that you remember, you can choose otherwise.

 

Why self worth?

Let’s look at some common illusory statements that have been stuffed down your throat since you were born (that includes other Earth lives as well, to be sure):

  • You’re not smart enough to do that.
  • You don’t have the education to do that.
  • No one has ever done that.
  • It takes years of practice to be that good at that.
  • You’re too old to try that.  Maybe when you were younger.

BULLSHIT!

That is all bullshit, my friends. You’ve merely been exposed to fear-based programming that kept you controllable.  And you can de-program yourself by changing what you believe.

Anything that you can think of, you can experience.  Period.

It’s all in your beliefs that you can, or can’t, that make the difference between you doing something, and you shutting yourself off to the possibility.

 

If you think you can, or you think you can’t…either way, you’re right.

~Henry Ford

 

So if you have the desire to try something “impossible” that would make you go “SQUEEEEEEE,” then ride that wave.  Stay in the vibration of it for as long as possible, and ask your Higher Self for assistance from the non-physical side of you.  Those etheric tools are just waiting for your invitation to be put to use.

Remember that any pits in your stomach that arise, are doubts based on someone else’s opinion of what is, and is not, possible; and you simply believed them long ago.  You can un-believe them just as easily, now that you are sharpening your own previously-rusty, creative tools for use in the 3D physical world.

Now many others around you have not done the inner work that you are doing, and because of this, they may discount your wild statements as fantasy, craziness or wishful thinking.  I don’t suggest sharing your adventurous plans with those who will not support you.  It’s not that they are bad friends, but rather that they may still be too ingrained in the illusion to be a willing cheerleader on the sidelines for something they still consider impossible.

It’s time to pull out the toolbox and dust off those creative skills that have been trapped inside, waiting for you to wake up.  As you recall, things put away and ignored are merely stopped up energy.

You have a lot of power in that toolbox. Pop open the lid, and use your imagination.  It’s how the Universe expands.

 

Kimberly

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Kimberly Darwin video on banishing frumpiness
Awakening Rants, Life on Earth, Videos,

VIDEO: Banish Frumpiness! Simplify Your Wardrobe

Awakening redirects our focus inwards, and as Grandma said, a cluttered closet reflects a cluttered mind. Dammit, Grandma was right again.

This video was created for all of those who struggle with mass amounts of unused clothes and shoes in their closets. Not only do those clothes have energy of their own, but if you aren’t using them, they can drain your own energy just by your having them around.

This is a slightly satirical video, so if you are looking for profound wisdom about The Event, or when aliens are going to land on the White House Lawn, then keep searching 🙂

Kimberly does address some “past life” issues, such as poverty, abundance and external approval, that you may be facing if you have a closet full of clothes you just haven’t been able to purge. Remember, your past lives are occurring now, right alongside THIS one that you’re focusing on, so may as well clear out not only your closet, but your antiquated belief systems along the way.

Grandma will be proud when you finally rid yourself of the things that no longer serve you.

Blooper at end.

All photos of awesome lightworkers used with permission. Thanks Mia Donna, Evan and Deb.

woman with umbrella after breakup
Awakening Rants, Featured, Life on Earth,

When Your Love Is Not Accepted

You’ve heard that love is the key that opens all locks. So what happens when you encounter a door that won’t open, even if you’re turning the key with all the love you have?

There are times when we love someone so deeply, so completely, and yet they are unwilling—or unable—to reciprocate. So should we hang around and “hold the space” for them until they come to their senses and love us back? Or should we move on in hopes of finding someone else?

That depends on how you feel about yourself. Here’s why:

Every relationship is a reflection of you.  Every person that you are aware of, is giving you the chance to decide who you are in that set of circumstances. They come to you, and you to them, for the opportunity to co-create within this holographic game, via collaborative teamwork.

Not only are you choosing situations that mutually explore your personal themes, but you also get to paint on the Universal canvas, with any brush that you like, with others at your side.

So how you feel about yourself in terms of the relationship you’re experiencing, will determine what you will glean from your partnership.  If you’re awake, you’ll most likely deal with a situation like this in a very different manner than when you’re still asleep.

 

Let’s view an “unhappy” ending from two perspectives: Asleep, and Awake.

 

Karen loves Steve with all her heart.  She gives everything she has, and trusts that everything will work out, aiming for a loving, lifetime partnership.

But Steve isn’t all that into her. She’s good to have around, because she pays her bills, cooks for him, and does laundry every Saturday.  He dreams of greener pastures, with more freedom, where he doesn’t have to talk about his feelings all the time.

Eventually, Karen decides it’s time to move on; she’s exhausted from giving and giving, and receiving nothing in return. She’s heartbroken, worn out, and wildly distrustful of the Universe–with all its talk of “faith,” “belief” and “knowing.”

The time after the breakup is volatile for Karen, with feelings spouting like chronic volcanic eruptions, on both ends of the spectrum. As she heals, she goes within, maybe with a little help from red wine and long days parked in bed.  She processes her feelings, and, after awhile, she emerges back into society…single and opinionated.

 

If Karen is still asleep, she will probably re-enter society with a vengeance.

She’s sick of men and their animalistic behavior. She is worth more than that, and she’ll find someone who will appreciate her. She’ll be looking at the world through glasses tinted with bitterness (“that asshole doesn’t deserve me”), vindication (“He is HER problem now”) and cynicism (“Why bother? Things always end badly anyway”).

Blame will most likely be cast on her partner for his failure to return the love that she gave so freely.

 

If Karen is awake, she will re-enter society with humility.

Most likely, Awake Karen spent her breakup time largely focusing on themes centered around the relationship, rather than the shortcomings of her partner.

Areas of expansion may include self-worth (“why am I unlovable?”), trust (“why would the Universe do this to me?”), or independence (“why can’t I be alone?”).

Awake Karen would see the theme behind the co-creation, and recognize the growth she’ll experience from it.  She might suffer in the process or she might not, depending on how much accountability she bears for her performance in the show. Yet she knows that, ultimately, the relationship served everyone involved, and she appreciates the time they spent together.

So why enter into a relationship at all, if it can “fail” even though we gave it our all?

 

There are times when we, as humans, don’t see the whole picture just yet.

It’s hidden from us, BY us, in order to provide the unknowns necessary for choices to be made. It’s certainly so in the game of love, where expectations whirl like leaves in the autumn wind.

And people grow at different paces, determined by their level of focus, willingness to look within and stabilize themselves from earlier failures, traumas and disappointments.

Self-observation raises your frequency; and we attract those of similar vibration to our own.  If frequencies vary too greatly in a partnership, the relationship will end, to make room for a more-aligned one. It’s always a gift, even if it doesn’t feel like one just after the process.

So hold onto your key, and use it to unlock some doors in your own self.  The more doors you open from within, the more doors will be open out there, in your physical world.

That is true love.

 

Kimberly

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