The Twin Flame Theme is playing itself out quite nicely on Earth.
Do you feel like you have a divine counterpart out there, somewhere…and does that yearning dominate your waking hours?
“Where is she?”
“When will he find me?”
“Why is it taking so long?”
Well, my beautiful friend, you are not alone. And you are not going crazy. Although our world would have you think so for every moment that you spend pining for someone you’ve perhaps never met, hoping that two lost souls will find each other like needles in a haystack. This is one of the deepest longings a human can have, and it’s happening to millions of us.
Perhaps you delve into YouTube for clues and predictions about when your partner will arrive. “When will it happen? Will our worlds align at the next solstice?” For only when he or she arrives, can you start living your life, right?
It doesn’t work that way.
Now those videos on YouTube are from well-meaning people. They are reading the energy of the Collective and they want to give you hope. Perhaps it is the next solstice, or maybe the New Year will bring this beautiful lover into your world. Nevertheless, your Twin Flame won’t arrive until you make some changes on the inside.
Before you click away from the page because you’ve heard this before, consider how well those prediction videos have been working. Have they brought you clues as to where he/she is? Chances are that they haven’t brought you to your partner. Because the perfect partner you’ve been yearning for is already there with you, right now. It’s you.
As long as you continue to look out there, you will see the lack of something you feel will complete you. You will count how many months–or years–you’ve been waiting, and you’ll doubt the laws of attraction that govern our world. But those same laws of attraction never falter. So that hopeless feeling you’re sending out is coming right back to you as more hopelessness. And right back to Twin Flame predictions you’ll go, because you are looking for more hope to fill that gap.
If this is you, then I would invite you to read the message below. It was created to plant a seed in you. This seed will sprout into an internal process of belief review. You may cry. You may find anger. And through this review, you will greatly increase your chances of encountering your Twin Flame, if that is truly your desire.
A trigger message for those still awaiting the arrival of their Twin Flame:
How do you feel about giving pleasure to others with your body?
Do you enjoy it?
Have you ever given pleasure to your partner and discounted your own?
End of message.
Why are the questions above pertinent to finding your lost lover? I’ll lay out the mechanics for you.
For the last 13,000 years, Earth has been playing in the game of high polarity. You can call it Dark vs Light, or Good vs Evil. Patriarchy has ruled, in which the thrusting force (male, negative, external) is stronger than the allowing force (female, positive, internal).
We pass through such cycles every 13,000 years; and in 2012, we began the new cycle of balancing feminine energy. You may have heard it called the Era of the Goddess. It’s an age of BEING rather than DOING. Of accepting, of unifying, of allowing in. Of balancing that outward thrust with inner awareness.
Sounds serene, doesn’t it?
Well in order to get there, for both the individual as well as the Collective, we must swing in the other direction by behaving differently than we did for the last 13,000 years.
There is no doubt in my mind that you, or someone you know, has been abused in their past. Abuse is one example of this imbalance. It was played out on any number of levels:
- Emotional (bullying, institutions such as the military),
- Physical (drunk beatings by a parent, sexual abuse)
- Spiritual (the church and its hypocritical abhorrence for pleasures of the body)
- Mental (teachers telling you you’re not good enough)
In all of the examples above, there was one entity asserting power over another. The Lion and the Lamb, if you like to read ancient texts.
Since we’re all connected, we carry around the memories of all of these instances–from every life that’s ever been lived in an abusive situation–inside our cells.
These cellular memories affect our view of life if accessed consistently. Plus, if in this lifetime you’ve experienced any of the above, then you are accessing these memories even more. They compound into beliefs about yourself and your worth. And, especially if someone used your body without your permission in this lifetime, then you might carry some imbalance related to this theme.
Contemplate your feelings about the pleasure that YOU receive through intimate encounters.
Do you feel loved? Safe? Heard?
You may not derive any pleasure from intimacy, because previous experiences have been based on someone using you for their own pleasure. Such events need not be limited to the bedroom; a screaming drill sergeant can derive just as much pleasure at berating you as any creepy perpetrator.
If intense feelings arise about this, do whatever you can do to safely feel them, including counseling if you feel you need it.
This type of energy can be cleared out much more efficiently now that we are on the feminine side of the cycle. You have endless support, more unity, and more understanding by fellow souls that have experienced similar circumstances.
By reviewing how (or if) you allow yourself pleasure, you are not only healing your own energetic imbalance, but you’re also healing the Collective as well.
So does this mean I won’t meet my Twin Flame until I’m healed?
Not necessarily. Let’s go back to mechanics to explain.
The Law of Attraction dictates that “like attracts like,” and no doubt you are looking for the best version of a partner you can possibly imagine. He or she will embody all of the values you deem important in a lover, and you would naturally want for yourself someone who has healed themself of major imbalances. I don’t know a single person that envisions an ideal lover that’s batshit crazy!
Such a person is of a particular frequency. And in order to experience that frequency, you need to match it.
Do you think that you will attract a person with all of those values if you aren’t living them yourself?
Now no one will be perfect while in a human body. So no need to expect it from yourself, or from anyone else you encounter. You do want healthy, though, and that health starts with you, the attracting force in this whole scenario.
By reviewing your beliefs about your power over your own body, you take care of yourself. You’ll then focus on allowing in another person who shares your values, who wants the same things that you do; and you’ll be allowing them in on your terms, not merely theirs.
This is you, regaining your power, and serving humanity at the same time. When you decide to let your Twin Flame in, rather than giving them all the power to come to you…then you’ll draw that person to your side. It’s Law.