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Using plants to merge with the field
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Video: Using Plants to Merge With The Field

“You should be closer to nature.” You’re probably sick of being told that, right?

But what does that mean? Do you literally have to hug every tree and spend hours sitting cross-legged in the grass? Not at all. If you live in an urban environment, chances are you can hardly afford to access the wild nature very often. But that is not a must. There’s an effective way to become closer to the Source while at home. Even the quarantine should not be an issue.

In this video, Kimberly dwells on how the plants you have at home can jumpstart your awakening and help you merge with the plane that encompasses a much larger part of you.

Taking care of a plant creates a deep connection that teaches you to harmonize your frequency with the environment. It brings you into the Field, finally kicking in synchronicity as you become aligned.

Once you establish a connection with one plant, this process will blossom into full awakening. You’ll start noticing the beauty of the surrounding nature and will help your home plants to grow strong and beautiful via your love and attention.

A home plant is easy to connect with. It is living, interacting, and will respond to you projecting love onto them. A loved plant becomes vibrant with liveliness and grants you access to the powerful force of nature.

You’ll see.

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The Kitchen Spider: Guidance From The Web

When I was a little girl, a gentle being with large eyes told me that I would never be without a spider.

This statement didn’t fit in anywhere until early adulthood, after I’d had a few changes of residence under my belt.  The being was right; everywhere I live, a spider sets up shop in my kitchen. They are usually black widows, which wield the fiercest symbolism among all of the fearsome options in the spider kingdom.

My current kitchen spider has been with me for two years. She lives beneath the floor lamp that lights my artistic workspace, and after all this time, we’ve come to know each other well.

 

Why do spiders show up?

Bugs have historically been a source of terror for humans. Scapegoats, in my opinion, along with the snakes…they’ve been given a bad rap.  Think about it: When was the last time one lunged out of the corner to attack you?

Yet those who view the world as a dangerous place will be the first to squash them when they appear in spaces that we call “our own.”

Any sense of invasion is a fallacy, of course; for if a spider shows up in your environment, it is just as valid a part of your creation as the lamp it lives beneath. You may love it or hate it, or something in between, but it’s you who put it there.

How does squashing the things that you fear work for you?

 

Here’s a common response when I discuss my arachnid friend:

“But it’s just a spider.”

Everything you see, hear, feel and experience is a part of you. If you have labeled something as “Just a…. (anything),” then you have concluded that your existence is more valuable than someone else’s.

Expect this to come back to you.

 

So before you pull out the shoe, observe the spider from another level.

Bend down and look at it.  It’s safe…most of them don’t jump…(wink).

Ask yourself some questions:

Why is it there? What do spiders represent for me? How do I feel about them being in my space?

Such reflections will become standard for you as you awaken, for you’ll want to consciously apply your lessons to multiple levels. You’ll be addressing the creepiness enforced by social conditioning/Hollywood movies (physical level); exploring appropriate symbolism specific to you (emotional level); and taking responsibility for what shows up in your life (creational level).

 

Here are some common spiritual themes that may invoke a spider in your world:

The value of life in all forms. Does it deserve to live?
The right to live in a specific space. Is it impinging on my territory?
Victimhood. Is it out to kill me?
Powerlessness. What if it bites me while I’m sleeping?

My guides call the spiders “Veterans.”  After all, they lose everything each time the cleaning lady makes a good sweep (which apparently mine doesn’t), and they immediately set up home again when the coast is clear.  A representation of your own inherent qualities, if you choose to activate them.

 

Establishing a relationship with your kitchen spider

Consider how our indigenous cultures live in unison with the nature around them. Earth offers many examples of such symbiotic relationships.  If they can do it, then we all can do it.

…and realize that you may come to like the little bugger. What once was an irrational fear turns to curiosity, and then to fondness, and then to its own kind of love.

Even if spiders still scare you, adopting a “you don’t bother me, and I won’t bother you” attitude will yield some very positive results.  See what happens when you do this.  If you have children, introduce them to the spider, and discuss it with a sense of wonder rather than fear. The animal kingdom is quite receptive to a welcome environment, and respect is returned in kind.  If fear for your child’s safety overpowers everything else, then move the spider to a jar for rehoming outside.  This demonstrates respect for the well-being of everyone involved, while illuminating your current belief systems along the way.  Incidentally, my grown son has a kitchen spider of his own.

Your attention to repairing relationships with “Others That Scare You” sends out a powerful message to the Universe.  It shows your dedication to transformation for a more unified co-existence.  This intention calls immense power to you, for use in spinning your own Web of Creation…one based in integrity and respect for those who share your world.

All this…from “just a spider.”

 

Kimberly

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About the art associated with this post.

“Here’s What Happens When You Channel a Spider” is a digital watercolor I created while connecting with my kitchen spider. Her messages arrive in bold images, colorful, and overlapping. She calls me “pig.”

Should you choose to read further about spider symbolism, check out Spirit-Animals.com.
Should you wish to order a print of the spider’s art, you can find it at my ArtStation site.

 

 

windmill
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Happening Now: You’re Transmitting to Humanity

Earth is making its move to Fourth Density.  And you, Lightworker, are a vital part of that.

Since COVID-19 has made its appearance and altered the behavior of virtually everyone on Earth, now is a perfect time for many people to evaluate their lives.  We as Lightworkers are tasked to do the same, but we’ve been at this a bit longer than most of the population, so perhaps for you it’s just another day of evolution.

Yet you may have, up until this time, wondered what your individual purpose is on this planet regarding this scenario.  With the onset of the virus (symbolic for connectivity), humanity has created an anchor; an event so significant that it changes virtually everyone on the planet and is recorded as a Primary Event in the annals of time.

Your purpose is multifold. Each of us is working on our individual goals and aspirations, all the while functioning as transducers of energy to the population while we’re accomplishing them.  Every individual contributes to the collective with their individual frequency; once we are conscious of that, we choose our creations knowing that everything we do affects the whole. So during this time, it’s a good idea to create with building blocks based in love.

Your visualizations are important right now.  What you imagine turns into form.  You can choose one of the current probable timelines, or you can imagine your own.  The important part is to use thoughts that embody unity, health, harmony and fulfilling the best and highest good for all.

If you want to keep tabs on what’s going on within the awakened collective, you may be interested in Daniel Scranton‘s daily channel messages.  They are short and succinct, with valuable information on what you can do to maintain your frequency and serve others during this event.

Are you up to the task?  If so, I’ll see you on that timeline.

 

Love to you.

 

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How Fast Can We Infect the Earth with Kindness?

Earth is experiencing a Reset.

With the coronavirus making its way around the globe, humanity is learning how connected we really are.  It’s a huge opportunity for us; and conditions are ripe for the population that incarnated on Earth at this time, to remember that they are creating their own reality.

Forced by law to spend time at home, we’ve been given the chance to review our lives; declutter, and wash our hands of things that no longer work for us.  News abounds about the ways humans are helping each other out, and this web of kindness grows each day.  The evidence is there if you look for it.

 

We at Are You Awakening have decided to start a movement.

As the virus puts pressure on humanity to clear blockages in the root chakra (safety and survival) energy center, Lightworkers can focus our thoughts on the positive outcomes of this Reset. So how fast can our little acts of kindness ripple across this planet?

We’re aiming to find that out, by creating our own positive virus called the KoalaVirus. It’s meant to infect Earth’s inhabitants with KINDNESS.

We spread the KoalaVirus by sending little bits of loving support to those who may be feeling fear about this whole thing.  People who are separated from others, or who are out of work right now, or struggling with kids who don’t understand what just happened to their world.

 

Earth is Leveling Up

As termed in my upcoming game Evolution144, humanity is moving from Level 2 (“The Doer”) to Level 3 (“The Questioner”). The game is created to assist awakening individuals along the sometimes bumpy awakening path.  When one enters the “Questioner” phase of awakening, we are prompted by events (often external, such as a quarantine) that provide stimulus to go within…and start asking ourselves Who We Really Are.  A large number of people are facing such an implosion at this time.

 

There are many who will welcome this introspection…and there are some who won’t.

In those times of solitude, we will face our past.  We will come to terms with abundance, and the lack of it. We will be prompted to consider sudden death from an outside force, that seemingly has more power over our own bodies than we do.

 

Those focused solely on headlines are unlikely to see the silver lining in the stormy cloud currently encircling our planet.

Love them right where they are.  There is no need to offer solutions unless asked for them.  Help them feel the connection that always exists, despite physical separation.  And remember that you were there once too.

Here are a couple of fun ideas:

  • Create kind words of support, and post them to a Twitter feed that focuses on negativity.
  • Write a poem and dedicate it to your aunt.
  • Post a photo of a loved pet doing silly things.

Using the hashtag #koalavirus will allow us to track the usage, and to form our own growth curve depicting the spread of KINDNESS around our planet.  More information can be found on the KoalaVirus website.

Here’s a meme to pass around anywhere you like:

…and you need not limit your actions to online.  There is surely someone on the street who would love a meal.  If you’re on your way to pick up your takeout meal, consider buying an extra one and provide it to someone who is unable to order on his own at this time.  With fewer people on the streets, there is less money being distributed to the homeless. Remember that all others are really you, in a different costume.

 

We’ve got this.

Love to you.

 

Kimberly

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VIDEO: Banish Frumpiness! Simplify Your Wardrobe

Awakening redirects our focus inwards, and as Grandma said, a cluttered closet reflects a cluttered mind. Dammit, Grandma was right again.

This video was created for all of those who struggle with mass amounts of unused clothes and shoes in their closets. Not only do those clothes have energy of their own, but if you aren’t using them, they can drain your own energy just by your having them around.

This is a slightly satirical video, so if you are looking for profound wisdom about The Event, or when aliens are going to land on the White House Lawn, then keep searching 🙂

Kimberly does address some “past life” issues, such as poverty, abundance and external approval, that you may be facing if you have a closet full of clothes you just haven’t been able to purge. Remember, your past lives are occurring now, right alongside THIS one that you’re focusing on, so may as well clear out not only your closet, but your antiquated belief systems along the way.

Grandma will be proud when you finally rid yourself of the things that no longer serve you.

Blooper at end.

All photos of awesome lightworkers used with permission. Thanks Mia Donna, Evan and Deb.

use the law of deliberate intent
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Want to Really Help Someone? Use The Law of Deliberate Intent

Rarely does a day go by that we aren’t reminded that someone in our world is a victim; whether that be from a natural disaster, or a bad relationship, or physical illness. It could even be you.

The media is first to provide every juicy detail of victimhood in its daily news reports.  And if you look at your own life, chances are that you were labeled a victim for something you experienced in your past.

It’s an easy trap to fall into.  I’ve been there many times, from losing everything I owned in a hurricane, to losing a child, homelessness, and a painful divorce.  I’m not alone; I am sure you can add your own experiences to mine, and we can hang out with other victims and talk about it.  I was a great victim.

So easy to do.  We receive sympathy, validation and undivided attention while we’re relating our woes.  Victimhood keeps people in the spotlight; but that spotlight is never aimed at the solution.  That’s where the Law of Deliberate Intent comes in.

The Law of Deliberate Intent dictates that what you focus on, expands.

So if your focus is on the details of victimhood, then victimhood persists.

Be careful with ego-fueled responses now.  There is no doubt that people suffer, and it’s important that we ensure that all beings basic needs are met if they are in crisis.  With the Law of Deliberate Intent, we go further and send out the intent that these “victims” move on to live safe, secure, abundant lives.

In other words, we stop focusing on them as victims, and instead focus on their well being.  Recounting the horror over and over again just keeps us all in a low energetic cycle of darkness.

Here is the part that some people find hard to swallow.  Whether or not you want to hear it, I’m going to tell you anyway, because hiding your head in the sand will only get you deeper into it as the tide comes in.

Every victim, everywhere, at all times, has chosen that experience on some level.

Yes. Even in the most extreme case of horrific, unthinkably diabolical actions.  Every victim.  Always.

That’s the way life on Earth works.

 

We incarnate for the opportunity for growth from the interaction with others.  In order for there to be a wide array of opportunities for expansion, some people choose to play parts on the receiving end of negative actions.  The potential for growth is huge, when you add suffering into the mix.  This applies to both the victim himself, and to all of those who are aware of it.

That’s where you come in.

Instead of focusing on the “poor victim” situation, you can focus on those same people and send out the intent that they will fully recover and continue to live abundant, safe lives.

This way, you’re sending out Light instead of continually putting your attention on the Dark.

It’s not hard to do.  You already visualize how you want your own world to look.  You’re just doing it for others, by sending out positive thoughts, and the intent that the situation will be resolved to the Best and Highest Good for all involved.  They may or may not recognize the life lesson involved in their victimhood; that matters not.  That’s free will, and as you awaken, you’ll learn your power to send Light to others, whether they consciously accept it or not.  You’ve done your part by shattering that victim label that so many others will still use.

This is how one person changes the world.  Seems such a small gesture, eh?  But it spreads.  Your actions are noted on an energetic level by the collective, so why not make them focused on positive outcomes rather than dwelling on the occurrence that got that victim where he or she is?

Your focus on the positive outcome is a great use of the Law of Deliberate Intent: Focus on what you want, rather than what you don’t want.  Your contribution raises the energy of the entire collective, which then makes higher-vibration experiences available to everyone.  That’s how powerful you are!

This applies to every situation, everywhere, including your own!

 

Love to all!

 

Kimberly

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New Earth has no secrets
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New Earth: Can You Live a Life With No Secrets?

What do you hide from the world?

Think about your deepest secrets.  Those little white lies from the past; an occurrence when you were the silent victim; the time the cashier gave you too much change, and you kept it…

Living in our previously low-energy world, humanity thrived on secrecy.  From ridiculous C-level salaries, to what happens in a President’s bedroom, society exchanged its darkest energy behind closed doors and from within sketchy clandestine groups.

And I’m sure you can see where that has gotten us.  We are on the verge of the release of thousands of sealed indictments and the exposure of the most horrific display of dark actions, and most humans will be irreversibly shocked at the magnitude of secrecy that endured for hundreds of years, right under their noses, by those that they trust.

Transparency will be the new black after this information is dispersed. Secrecy is on its way out. But that’s other people, and what they did.  It’s got nothing to do with you, right?

You are just as responsible as the perpetrators for this secrecy, for “As Within, So Without.”

That’s quite a claim I made right there, and sure to invite some verbal backlash.  I get it.  I’m just as responsible as you are for the whole situation. And we are the ones who are changing it for the better.

 

It all starts with you, and what you’re hiding. It starts with your personal integrity.

If you chose to incarnate as a Lightworker, part of your mission is the mastery of integrity in all situations.

Integrity is “the state of being whole and undivided.” Not just about telling your “truth” about something, but choosing words, intentions and deeds that promote the best and highest good, in every situation in which you find yourself, for all involved.

So let’s go a bit deeper and talk about what role secrecy’s opposite—transparency—will play in the New Earth.

We always draw to ourselves others of similar vibration. You might call them “kindred souls,” or “soul family,” or maybe just someone you feel like you’ve met before. Maybe you can even finish each others’ sentences!  That’s because you have met before. They are all other versions of YOU, experiencing life from their particular perspective. When you come together and share thoughts on a non-verbal level, you integrate.

And the more thoughts you share with more people, the more transparent you will want your life to become.  You are constantly broadcasting your feelings, your moods and your attitude to the entire collective (yet most people still forget how to read it), which includes not only the fun stuff like happiness and joy, but also your anger, jealousy and fear.

See, dogs have maintained that skill to smell emotion, even after domestication! You have it too.

 

Do you expect honesty from others, and yet fail to extend it to everyone that you encounter?

Just as we are now demanding that the government share all information with its constituents, this also applies on an individual level.

As communication becomes more telepathic, expect more people to consciously read your energetic signature.  So if you have things you’d like to process, this might be a great time to weed your internal landscape.

If you’re surrounded by those who display dishonesty and lack of integrity, that won’t change until you embody those values yourself—with every person, all the time.  There will be great benefit in this, for we are better prepared to share our gifts with others from within a paradigm of openness and true compassion.

Plus, driving in traffic will be infinitely easier when you know when the guy in front of you is about to veer into your lane. 🙂

 

You got this. Love!

 

Kimberly

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how you react to button pushers
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Button Pushing: From Asleep to Awake

There will always be people who push your buttons. They can leave you fuming at the ears…but then you remember that you’re awake, and smacking the shit out of them is no longer a viable option.

Those annoying souls are there for your benefit, you know.  An easy thing to forget when they push too far, through word or action.

I had a person in my life who was incapable of making a supportive statement.  OK, let’s be honest:  he’s a dick.

It doesn’t matter if what they say is true for you or not.  Anything presented to you is from that person’s perspective, and reflects their view of the world.  There will always be people to share their opinions with you, unless you decide to be that guy that meditates in a cave for the rest of your life.

So let’s do a little comparison between how you might react to someone pushing your buttons, back when you were asleep, and now that you’re awake.

I’ll share a recent public statement from my personal button-pusher:

A 52 year old woman can go off her meds and talk shit about unicorns and aliens without her friends and relatives catching her and locking her up until she starts taking her meds again. One day she will start to believe the things she says on You Tube and forget there is a difference between fantasy and reality and try to sell her concepts in the real world and then her friends and family will become the elusive unicorn and alien!  Love always!

Seriously! Love always!?

That is the sign of a soul contract, right there.  Or passive aggression.  Probably both.

So how to react to a statement like that?

As an asleep human, I would go into defense mode.

I might refute in anger the untruths of the statement, or…even worse…retaliate with the most painful dagger to his insecurity that I could muster up in a millisecond.

When we’re asleep, we see each other as separate people, at odds with the world and everyone in it. We’ve forgotten that each person we interact with is merely a reflection of ourselves, presenting an opportunity to discover something about us.

 

Now let’s take a look at how awake people could handle the same situation:

An awake human would recognize the opportunity to respond to any statement, whether negative or positive, with kindness and compassion.

The awakened soul will aim to deliver a response that deflects any negativity, through the understanding of the source delivering it.  Knowing that we are all one, looking at life through different eyes, we respond as if we are looking into a mirror. This maintains karmic balance and is self-love at its best.

Those button-pushers are giving you a gift, to practice your compassionate action.  To put yourself in another’s shoes.  To transmute from a reactive separate person, into a better you that understands the connection between all souls, no matter how separate they may feel.

So how did I respond? Well, I won’t claim to be Buddha. Initially, I devised many daggers to fling; but what good does it do other than create more karma for me to balance? So I said nothing until I felt that I could deliver a positive message, one that asserted my choice to detach from consistently negative people.

I’m sure another button-pusher is well on his way into my life, because that’s how we grow.

How blissful it would be if the awakening process were the simple flick of a switch…from Bitch to Buddha in the blink of an eye.

Don’t expect to be a saint; that’s not why you came to Earth at this time.  In this divinely-orchestrated interactive game board, you get the chance to decide, at every moment, who you will be in any situation.  You’ll have plenty of chances to better yourself, I promise!

And don’t forget that sometimes, the biggest button pusher is you, talking to yourself!  All the more opportunity to send love in the wake of statements that lack it.

Love always!

 

Kimberly

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Video. Awakening Trigger Message: Send Out Love
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Trigger Message: Send Out Love Today

Today should be the day of love. This is an ethereal substance that is always present around us. Even if we don’t notice it and don’t know it’s there, love is among us. A Lightworker’s job is to fill the world with love through positive intention.

Send love! It’s important right now, even if you don’t think it’s going anywhere. Energy isn’t usually visible with our human eyes. Just try to feel it with your heart. Look deep inside and try to see and what is good and what is bad for you. Don’t be influenced by the public and media information.

Make decisions according to your own feelings and know that its all is for the better. No matter what decision you make, believe that you are deeply loved by the Universe – a force that would never want any harm come your way. You are safe and everything will go the way you want if you believe in yourself and your wishes.
Remember the send out love and it will come to you tenfold, especially on October 12.

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waiting for twin flame?
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Been Waiting For Your Twin Flame? What’s Taking So Long?

The Twin Flame Experiment is in full swing, and unions are occurring around the world.  Still waiting for yours?  Doubting you have one? Both are good questions right about now.  It’s time to get internal.

I would love to give you news like all of those YouTube channels that display Hindu gods and goddesses, enrobed in jewel colors, intertwined in an eternal kiss of everlasting love.  I would love to be another one of those people that gives you readings that your Flame is just around the corner, and when you meet, then everything in life will be perfect. But that’s not my gift.

My particular gift is to trigger you into remembrance of what life is really all about.

And sometimes that means providing you with an internal perspective of what concepts like the Twin Flame experiment really encompass.




The Twin Flame experiment is part of a collective soul contract, in which 5th dimensional beings have the opportunity to ramp up the Earth’s frequency by incarnating into two (whole) parts at the same time: one masculine, and one feminine. They live two separate lives, going through their individual stuff, learning and remembering such lessons as heartbreak, security, abandonment, lovability and unconditional love.

The purpose of this division is to play out the illusion of polarity, from both the male/female aspect, as well as the separation/integration aspect, of a soul’s existence on the physical plane. Twins, as they are called, will come into union after a certain amount of inner work is done, making them better candidates for bonded relationships that foster growth for both parties…AND multiplying their energy for the benefit of humanity.

Once union–or integration–occurs, then that couple, as two complete souls combining their energy as one, emanates an exponential amount of light versus the two separate entities alone.

So 1+1 does not equal 2 in the case of those enrolled in the Twin Flame experiment.

In the case of Twin Flames, 1 + 1 = 10

Think about what this would do for modern-day Earth, where we are playing out the Dark vs Light scenario in full force right now.  You don’t have to look far to see that those of negative polarity are having their final temper tantrum, rising up in any way they can in a final fury before the Light succeeds in being the prevailing polarity for Earth’s inhabitants.

When two super-charged twins unite, that’s all the more powerful light to shine on the collective.  And this is why the Twin Flame experiment is coming to fruition in these next years.

So are you part of this experiment? Do you feel like there is someone out there that mirrors you?  Perhaps you only experience the connection on the astral plane, through voices in your head, a feeling of deep love for someone you don’t even know, or the feeling of not being alone.

If you feel like you have a Twin, and you’re frustrated that he or she is not in your physical plane, then read on.

We’ll put aside the entwined-lover scenario for a second, and go internal, because ALL of life is really just internal anyway.

That part of you that is in 5D is integrated to the point of not needing physicality.  Incarnation is a choice, and many of our 5D selves chose physicality at this time and place as a service to his fellow souls.

In the case of twins, that 5D part of you wanted to both assist the collective and also grow on a personal level, through living life on the same timeline from different perspectives.  So it splits itself up into a 4D portion (the non-physical part that you feel, sense or hear in your head) and a 3D portion (the physical body.)

So the 5D YOU divided itself into four portions, each with all of the powers of the whole:

Divine Feminine in 4D (non-physical)
Divine Feminine in 3D (physical)

and

Divine Masculine in 4D (non-physical)
Divine Masculine in 3D (physical)

 

And then you forgot! And you’re set free to live lives, from FOUR different perspectives. And the name of the game is to integrate ALL of those perspectives into one, by remembering your power as the creator of the whole experiment in the first place.

When you do this, it’s a win-win situation:  for both the collective, and on a personal level.

So first, you may encounter your twin in your dreams or in meditation (non-physical); and you two will build up a relationship between your non-physical selves.  This is your integration on the non-physical level. 4D + 4D.

And this is where lots of us get stuck.  We yearn for the 3D + 3D part of the equation. We want the integration on the 3D level so much more—to experience the sensation of touching, kissing, feeling of security, and….sex.  And we wonder where that damn twin is. And we start looking all around us, second-guessing the perfection of the Divine Design, trying to push things along.

We question the Universe…which turns to begging, and will eventually transform into self doubt:

  • “Is she with someone else?”
  • “What if he isn’t attracted to me?  Am I too fat?”
  • “Where do I have to go to meet her?”

That initiates a wild ride along the rapids of self deprecation, and it’s easy to be pulled along with the negative current. Perhaps it’s time to remember who is creating your show in the first place.

It’s YOU.

Your twin is merely another aspect of yourself. When you make that merge in 4D, then it’s time to go inward and ask yourself what work needs to be done on the YOU that will make up your portion of the relationship.

Because it isn’t about whether your twin will find you attractive.  It’s whether YOU find yourself attractive.

It isn’t about if your twin is in the right place at the right time.  It’s about YOU being in a place of joy that will bring that twin, also in a place of joy, to you.

In other words, you must BE the person you want your twin to be.  Because you’re really only integrating your separate selves together anyway.  You must be in that vibration to attract it to you. Every time.  No exceptions.

Are you in that vibration?

Or are you waiting for the perfect partner to show up when you’re not even sure who YOU are yet?

Again, it all comes down to frequency, and that is an internal job, every time.  If you feel that you have a counterpart out there that is the “yin” to your “yang,” or the “yang” to your “yin,” then that person will show up when you’re truly yourself.  All the time.  Good and bad.  Cranky and bubbly.  Tired and energized. Mean and nice.

It’s not about being perfect.  It’s about being YOU, with all of your quirky traits, and your idiosyncrasies, and your recognition of areas in which you could grow. It’s about acceptance of who you are, right now.  And any twin that’s worthy of your time is doing the same thing in his or her life right now too.

That person exists, out there, in the physical, yet just out of sight.  As within, so without.

Look inside to see what’s showing up for you outside…and you will remember the Meaning of Life.

 

Kimberly

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